[Andrew123654]

Well, life has been really fked up lately. My parents just got a divorceafter 24 years together. My sister ashley just got a divorce with her husband, that lazy SOB, and my sister trisha is in the process of getting a divorce. Im getting a bunch of flack through all of this bs thats going on so im already paranoid about my girlfriend cheating on me. I couldn't tell at first my mom was having an affair. Wait, back up. In march of 04, my parents decided to start a franchise called postnet. They bought into it and it was built by july, opened the 14th. Now I know my parents are having trouble but I think its just stress for my mom because she is running the business and my dad is at work bringing home the green. It turns out she has been cheating on my dad with the contractor that built the store. My dad has known this sence august 04 and hes tried to repair their relationship. Christmas comes around and my dad check the credit card reports and shit and finds that she bought Paul, the guy that my mom is cheating with, an expensive necklace. My dad keeps his cool and keeps trying to repair the relationship. My mom started drinking heavly whenever the store opened, and on certian days when one of the kids would approch her to stop, she would flip out, by a 24 pack of bud light and have it drunk within 2 hours. My dad got her going to AA for a couple weeks but that fell apart. Easter sunday rolls around and my mom says shes going to the mall. Well mom, the mall is closed on easter sunday, my dad asked her where she really went and she told him the truth, she spent easter sunday with paul on a boat on lake travis. My dad broke it off and got the divorce rolling, it just became official the end of June. Back in October 04, I meet my now ex girlfriend. We hit it off and she is the best thing I could have. We had our fights but we work through them. This past wednesday, we got into a big fight because I didn't like the fact that she ditched me tuesday to go swiming with her friends at some guys house. She tells me there were 3 guys there, but I did my own reasearch. Her friend has a myspace.com page, and I find a picture uploaded that reads the date, and shes states the guys house, and there are 5 guys in the picture around her friend. She spend the whole time swearing up and down, then she tells me some guy wanted to kiss her named ****, well that was the guys house she was at. I get really pissed off and ask if hes going to be there at the lake on wednesday when she goes with her friends, and she says no. So I ask who is going to be there and she names the guy. We got into a big fight and made up afterward, I drop her off at her house and everything is dandy, she says she will see me on thursday when she gets back. Thursday rolls around and she is no where to be seen, I work at a postnet from open to close and she usually comes to see me and hang out to be with me because she doesn't have a job. Well, at 11:45pm that night, she text messaged me saying she thinks we should break up, I ask her if its what she wants and she says yes. That was the longest night of my life, I felt like wrapping my truck around a tree down a country road with the back of the bed filled up with kegs of gasoline.

We had plans to be together friday night but now I guess the only plan is for me to go home and cry found a staight 6 hours, what else can I do? I just lost the best thing I had, and basically the only thing that made me get up in the morning. Sorry, I just feel like venting.

 

[hybrid]

If its that easy for her to be so shitty she is definetly not the best thing you had.

Sounds to me like you loved the idea of her more than you did her.

Get over it and roll on. Plenty of them that arent retards out there

 

[fengler]

fuck dude, thats a messed up situation. i know this wont help much, but you just gotta roll with the punches man. theres no use in wrapping your truck around a tree, because youll never get to expeirience riding a motorcycle. it will all work out, it just takes time. Live and learn and then get luvs.

 

[Chinygyal]

If its that easy for her to be so shitty she is definetly not the best thing you had.

Sounds to me like you loved the idea of her more than you did her.

Get over it and roll on. Plenty of them that arent retards out there

She will realize in due time what she has lost

 

[Nevrsumr22]

Dude my advice for you since you are 18 is go out tonight and get as many girls numbers as you can. Trust me moving on makes it go away way faster than just sitting around stewing about it.

Sorry about the rest of the shit just know that it's not your fault and that is life. Sucks sometimes but it always gets better in the end.

 

[Andrew123654]

If its that easy for her to be so shitty she is definetly not the best thing you had.

Sounds to me like you loved the idea of her more than you did her.

Get over it and roll on. Plenty of them that arent retards out there

There is no doubt it my mind she was the best thing I had. I think maybe I was to selfish, I didn't like her hanging out with her friends because I knew the 3 girls she hangs out with like to be outnumbered 2:1. She was so sweet, she never cussed just because, she had to have a good reason, she never stole anything, she was really genuine and what I think, one of a kind. She swore that she wouldn't do anything to hurt our relationship 2 days when we talked but her story didn't add up. Once we made up, she gets a call and it just happans to be one of the guys that was there at the pool. I get really pissed because thats just me, my dad got played and maybe im being to cautiouse but I was blind at first to my parents situation. I don't see how she could just text me and brake up that way, thats just too heartless for her, and I think someone got her phone or her friends somehow convinced I wasn't right for her, but it just didn't strike me as her.

 

[Anti-Hero]

Everyday without her will get easier. Trust me, once you get over the initial sting, it's all up hill from there. Maybe talking to someone would help you. A counselor, or chapplin. Just so you can get it off your chest.

 

[RayOSV]

You've got a lot to deal with right now. While it may seem easier with one special person to be with, you now need to surround yourself with true friends who will stand behind you no matter what. This would be a really hard time for you to try to develop a relationship with someone. Your now-ex may come around, but don't count on it. It sounds like you were more ready for a serious relationship than she was which is tough at your age.

 

[lightrum151]

call an escort service right away dude

There is no doubt it my mind she was the best thing I had. I think maybe I was to selfish, I didn't like her hanging out with her friends because I knew the 3 girls she hangs out with like to be outnumbered 2:1. She was so sweet, she never cussed just because, she had to have a good reason, she never stole anything, she was really genuine and what I think, one of a kind. She swore that she wouldn't do anything to hurt our relationship 2 days when we talked but her story didn't add up. Once we made up, she gets a call and it just happans to be one of the guys that was there at the pool. I get really pissed because thats just me, my dad got played and maybe im being to cautiouse but I was blind at first to my parents situation. I don't see how she could just text me and brake up that way, thats just too heartless for her, and I think someone got her phone or her friends somehow convinced I wasn't right for her, but it just didn't strike me as her.

call 2 of them n pick tha cheapest one , tell her to act like your gf,hide tha handy cam under a basket ..n talk 2 her like u have to hurry up cause your gf is gona be back soon from tha lake and you dont want to get caught.....also make sure to tell her to come over early on tha 4th july...

then edit tha copy wrap it put a girls name on it .. N have some chick that comes in tha Postnet drop it off at your ex-gf house .. wit a note: i just thought u should see this.....


dude when yo ex-gurl gets it she's gona flip call u N or come right over .. anyway you will get tha chance 2 screww her really good (n tha a*s)one last time ... (handy cam needed) make an audio tape of that low down bee-yatch su*king di*k N send it to her moma..n all her guy freinds .. make sur you express if or not she swollows ...

now trut me will be feel better right after u call tha escort .. so dont worry about that .. n you'll feel even better treatin her like shit tha last time u screww her... then go out .. n get rid of that truck n get u a hoe magnet (motorcycle) n somes gurls...dude ..

 

[hybrid]

Dude, your clowning yourself.

I know from experience my friend, boy do I know.

She is young, wants commitment but not that kind of commitment. You stepped in the wrong direction.

She tossed it because you were insecure and quite probably because someone else has her attention. Its not a bad thing, trust me on this one.

Everything you say makes me believe all the more that you are in love with the "idea" of her. Not in love with the "reality" of her.

Just pick up the pieces and move on. Keep a light on for her if you want, just dont stay at home waiting, or one day you are going to wake up and realize you are a lonely guy that has missed out on alot of opportunities.

 

[Andrew123654]

chick magnet?

I don't know what im going to do. I don't have many true friends, and the only friend I can trust is in his late 30's and enjoys the same thing I do, truck modification and off-roading.

 

[Andrew123654]

Dude, your clowning yourself.

I know from experience my friend, boy do I know.

She is young, wants commitment but not that kind of commitment. You stepped in the wrong direction.

She tossed it because you were insecure and quite probably because someone else has her attention. Its not a bad thing, trust me on this one.

Everything you say makes me believe all the more that you are in love with the "idea" of her. Not in love with the "reality" of her.

Just pick up the pieces and move on. Keep a light on for her if you want, just dont stay at home waiting, or one day you are going to wake up and realize you are a lonely guy that has missed out on alot of opportunities.

I don't know, I can say pretty confidently that I could have married this woman and be completely contect the rest of my life. She told me herself on plenty of occasions she wanted to get married before I went to college so she could know that we are committed enough to stay together through it all. We went looking for rings, I wanted to ask her to merry me and stay enguaged untill we could afford to get married.

 

[Exhiliration]

The short term problem is you are deprived of booty. I know how that might feel but once you discover new booty you will start to forget the old booty.

I can't see how you can be in love with a girl that goes out hanging with other guys, says how they come on to her, knows you don't like it but continues to do so etc...The problem is you are insecure and weak and your solution is flawed. Another problem is you are like a leech and attach yourself, draining her creativity and growth as a young women trying to explore everything the population has to offer. Despite all this, if you wrap your truck around a tree you will have probably hurt a living tree, now ask yourself if the tree did anything to you? Why would you go and take your revenge out on a tree?

EDIT: Hit the strip clubs and all your problems will be solved.

 

[Colch636]

Walk away head held high, you didn't take any crap and look like a loser while your girls was bangin some other dude. Its like Ice Cube says " hteres one bitch in the world, one bitch with many faces"

 

[bill]

walk away with your head held high !!!

 

[Josh D]

Don't wreck your truck man, it's too nice to do that! Just find you a big mud hole and spin all 4 of those mickeys until you're buried to the frame. Then after you're done saying "FUCK that was awesome!", have your buddy hook on with the jerk strap or chain and pull your ass out, then go wash your truck at the carwash and shoot the shit with your buds.

I know what you mean about friends also. Mine are few and far between, and there is really nobody I could count on 100%. The few I do have act like 12 year olds and are delusional about getting shit they will never be able to afford and/or know nothing about.

 

[Repeater]

I don't know, I can say pretty confidently that I could have married this woman and be completely contect the rest of my life. She told me herself on plenty of occasions she wanted to get married before I went to college so she could know that we are committed enough to stay together through it all. We went looking for rings, I wanted to ask her to merry me and stay enguaged untill we could afford to get married.

Can I be the first to say this?:
Dude, you're 18.
18.


Think about it. You've got a lot of shit to do in the next few years and a lot of new opportunities. You won't make the best out of them if you're pining over some chick that basically crapped on you. I could never be content with someone that would do that to me - you know better now, though. So she runs on at the mouth about how happy and committed you would be together. So she breaks up with you via instant message. Nice. Gutless, I've got to say.

You didn't take the shit that some guys who lack self-esteem far more than you do. Taking shit from people is the foremost path to ruin. Realize that the choices you've made were made for a reason. Might not be clear now, but it will eventually.

Cliff's notes:
1) She's obviously not the best thing that's ever happened to you.
2) Go out and meet other women, learn how to ride a motorcycle if you haven't already, and go get you some mud on that truck.
3) Profit.

 

[Andrew123654]

Can I be the first to say this?:
Dude, you're 18.
18.


Think about it. You've got a lot of shit to do in the next few years and a lot of new opportunities. You won't make the best out of them if you're pining over some chick that basically crapped on you. I could never be content with someone that would do that to me - you know better now, though. So she runs on at the mouth about how happy and committed you would be together. So she breaks up with you via instant message. Nice. Gutless, I've got to say.

You didn't take the shit that some guys who lack self-esteem far more than you do. Taking shit from people is the foremost path to ruin. Realize that the choices you've made were made for a reason. Might not be clear now, but it will eventually.

Cliff's notes:
1) She's obviously not the best thing that's ever happened to you.
2) Go out and meet other women, learn how to ride a motorcycle if you haven't already, and go get you some mud on that truck.
3) Profit.

Thanks man, I guess it is pretty shitty for her to do it over messanger, after all, she just downed 8 months of memories. I would go out and meet new girls but I really am not joking when I say I have next to no friends. Once I got lauren, I just kinda lost sight of everyone and focused on her because she ment so much to me.

 

[rs50asu]

dude thats F'ed up, wish i had some good advice but i really dont, just try and be positive and look towards the future rather than the past.

 

[bugeyed]

Dude, you are only 18, wait until you get to be 35. If you keep your head on straight and work hard and make something of yourself, chances are you havent seen the last of her. After she gets her fill of losers in life she'll come crawling back, but by that time you'll have someone you like better or wont be interested in her. I'm dead serious. All you need to do is concentrate on yourself, your education, your goals in life. Don't get sidetracked by girls.