So I thought I'd give an update, just for fun.
Everything is still pretty much the same honestly, but I've all but stopped making any of the first moves. I really don't think she's even gotten the hint on that, and I personally still view that as acting selfish.
On a different note, our anniversary happened on Sunday. I went and got a nice card and some candy; nothing big, but just something nice. I go out for a ride and when I get back, I noticed that the card and candy had been moved. Clearly, she found it, but then she says "ummmm...I didn't know we were doing gifts or anything...I feel really bad".
Rehearse saying this over and over again