Wife was caught cheating. We've been together 17 yrs and married 15yrs. We have two kids 13 and 5 yrs old. She said she would be gone if other guy left his wife, but want's to stay together until then. We'll I don't want to leave kids. They are my life!!! What do I do?? Ride it out or dump her. I'm still fighting this within myself. I coach the kids in three different sports, cook, clean and get the kids ready for school, they are my life. I've given her anything she needed from a $10k rock to candle lite dinners and she has girls night out. I don't know how much more someone would want. Need some advice from someone w/experience.