[s2cmpugh]

ok here is my question.. Whats the best way to approach or meet a lady when all i want to do is HANG OUT, NOTHING ELSE? I don't want her to think that i want sex or anything b/c as "gay" as this may sound, its just not worth it at my age (22). My last relationship made me second guess the motive of alot of women. Of course if she also rode that would KILLAH too but if not its ok.. I just need some advice so I do not come off seeming like an ass, or wanting sex.

You ladies on how sound like a blast to hang out w/ but im up here in VA.. little far away.

thanks
Cris

 

[s2cmpugh]

i think im a little baffled as to what to say really.... like what should i say when i approach her... "i find you attractive and just wanted to let u know" just a little lost in that area. I was concerned you guys would think its weird for me not to want sex from a lady, but im almost done w/ school and dont want to mess anything up.. I just want some cool new friends to hang w/..

 

[s2cmpugh]

If you do what everyone else says, they'll probably think it's a player game and want you anyway. Girls are weird like that.

ill tip my glass to that.....

 

[s2cmpugh]

The only real male friend that doesn't want anything else is a gay male!!!

I am serious...had one in college and he was a blast to hang with and no motives towards me whatsoever!!

So S2 if you are that serious, move to Florida...I would love to just have a male friend and nothing more!!

ok let me explain my story a little. The last girl I was with was VERY adament about NEVER having any kids. No problem as I really dont want any either. Well she was NOT on any kind of birth control and refused to go on any...mmmmmmmmmk. Well she also preferred to not use a condom, calling it "risky but fun". So in my mind im thinking "trap", and bounce out, not to mention she really wasnt very into it. I think that may have been a wakeup call to me realizing things and it put a lot into perspective. I have one year left of school, just bought a new bike, and am still young. She was also all about us getting married, living together, and spending the rest of our lives together... well all this after only 5 months. I think she was kinda messed up in the head...

Thats why I say sex is not really a priority right now as I need to get my life and career going first, hence i just want to hang out w/ girls.. Now if something happned b/t me and a girl then well u know have to take FULL advantage of the situation.

Does that maybe help show you guys where im coming from?

 

[s2cmpugh]

I knew what you meant but I think you misread my last post!! LOL

I was just saying basically for me...I can't find just a male friend...they always seem to want something more and I am not interested in them like that. That was all!!

come to VA... I need a new riding buddy.. although FL would be fun too... I need ideas on how to approach though.. got any suggestions?

 

[s2cmpugh]

see I have this bad habbit of attracting the psycho ones... as in "lets get married and live together..." after only 3 months.. I can't find any cool normal ones

 

[s2cmpugh]

if your speaking about women... NO SUCH THING! hahah! cool?!? maybe... normal?!?! HAHAHAHAHAHAH!! we don't come in the "normal" flavor :flipa

greeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaattttttttt....... I at least want to find one that wants to date a few YEARS before marriage. I mean seriously, do I give off that vibe of "marriage material" at 22???? maybe i have that fertal smell women like...hahah

 

[s2cmpugh]

i guess your right, but my last gf was 25, so she was FOR SURE at that age... I mean I think I am a catch. Graduate in a year, haave a nice car, nice BIKE, outgoing, in shape, and funny... but why do i attract the "ball and chains"?? UHHH so annoying just want a girl as a friend for now,

and as far as finding a girl riding buddy in this area... forget it, i have YET to see one girl in a sportbike

like today for example, i was at the gym and this "lady" started talking to me, asking my name and "damn u do 45 min on that thing.. WOW" then she goes on talking about HER 2 KIDS..... i was like JESUS why mee......

 

[s2cmpugh]

move your ass to Ky.. then you'll have an everyday riding buddie.. ME! the guys I ride with seem to only wanna ride on Sundays.. I wanna ride all the time, damn it!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

so move down here.. hurry!!

so whats to do in KY?? hehehe acutally come to think of it, there isnt much to do here either. Oh and yes i ride whenever I can, gotta live life to the fullest..

 

[s2cmpugh]

Hey sweety, I am happily married and love to ride, come to Michigan and I will hang out with ya. Got everything else taken care of, have had my kids and become a wife. I love having male friends that don't want anything from me but they are not easy to find! And it is only about a 12 hour ride from VA to MI

WOW!! This is an old thread! Thank you for the offer! 12 hours is a bit long of a ride on the bike.