This is kind of an akward issue, but here it is. My girlfriend and I just started having sex recently, (well it was my first time, not hers) but anyways. We both live with the parents for now, so between her folks, her sister, and my parents etc. and work its kind of a pain in the ass to get 'alone' time. Usually when we are alone its like one of us is on the lookout to make sure her parents arent walking in the room on us. So up until recently weve just done everything except sex. So its kind of new to me still so im still having the "first time" nervousness for some reason. Last night we were about to get it on, and then I realized I had left my door open upstairs.. so I stop to get dressed, and run upstairs to shut the door... my mom takes the opportunity to walk downstairs to feed the fucking cat (meanwhile my gf is frantically trying to get dressed) needless to say it was sort of a mood killer/ heart attack situation. Anyways I go back downstairs and were about to get to it.. and NOTHING i wanted to, it just killed the mood, and I just couldnt make myself horny. I swear im horny as a fuckin demon 23 hours a day, but when it actually counts something always comes up (like my mom almost walking in on us) , or ill get all nervous about it etc.. and it just kills the mood. Its like I get the 'butterflies in the stomach' feeling but worse, and it just kills the mood. Aside from drinking myself into obliviousness before sex does anyone have any ideas on how to calm myself the fuck down?