How many people have you 'been with'
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um, probably around 15, I don't really remember all of them, mostly they were either one time things, or just booty calls, only a couple were relationships, and sometimes it just started as sex, and developed into a relationship, I have learned, that while I am not going to say sex has to be the most important part of dating someone, I can't be with someone who either A. won't have sex, or B. Won't do it right (she has to be willing to try things, and do oral, of course) it is nothing personal or really superficial I don't think, it is just something I want in a relationship, and I don't think I should have to compromise in that respect.
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I stopped counting, mostly because I've been a total whore since my senior year of high school. Finally slowing down though. (got married) Now it's just the Mrs. and the mistress.
dont i feel like a manslut...i dont really know but id say around 25 or so...but ive learned that no matter how much a women tells you that she wants to know the # of women and she wont care it will always be a factor in the relationship...im w/ japbike and sixxy if someone you care about asks jus say its not important or avoid the question or jus flat out lie...
I agree, I've been with guys thinking that "this is the best relationship" and we finnaly move it to the bed room and I'm thinking "Why. WHY!" "It's horrible!" :a2 I actually stayed in a relationship with a person and over looked the sex when I was living in Madison, Wi. And no matter how hard I tried, it just wasent going to work out. The sex was just down right BAD, even tho he was a super sweet guy, I couldn't over look it. I felt maybe I was being shallow, but it wasn't that, I didn't feel as if I should settle for just a "nice" guy and not get a "nice guy that was good in bed" too..
Rascus said:
For me...I have to draw the line at living together...it's not for me at all. For me that person who has been with me for a couple of years or so almost everyday if not everyday..spending nights at each others place etc...if they don't know me by then..then they never will.
My thing is...if I am good enough to live with then I am good enough to marry!! :twofinger There's just too much there for someone to walk out too easily..where as married...there are people who feel more committed and will work on things.
Again this is just how I feel for me!! I am pretty old fashioned like that and in liking my door opened for me, chair pulled out etc. This is something I won't bend my rule on at all.
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I still think there may be some nuances that will surface after you have moved in together. My grandparents are totally against it because of their religion but i'm agnostic so doesn't really bother me. When my kids get older I will encourage them to live with the person they plan on marrying for a time before they do actually get married
I agree, you HAVE to test drive before you buy. Am I the only person that watched Sex And The City? One of the sexually active ladies of the show got married to this one guy without getting nasty first. And on their first night, the guy could NEVER get it up. It took them months before they even made it to 3rd base successfully. Then in due time, they got divorced. I wouldn't want that to happen to me. See, you can learn something from watching Sex And The City. I hate that they took it off On-Demand before I got to see the end of season 6 and the last season. I haven't even bothered watching it on TBS.
Oh, and I'm working on 6 and 7 right now. Actually on the phone early in the morn with number 7.
Oh, and I'm working on 6 and 7 right now. Actually on the phone early in the morn with number 7.
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Is it still pre-martial sex if you never plan on getting married?
Exhiliration said:
yes it is.. all that really means is that your having sex out side of marrige.. that's all... and if that's a sin, then I believe the majority of the world is going to hell.. :lol..... oh well, I love the heat, and I hear it's pretty warm there..
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3, first was my ex-wife. I shouldn't have saved it.
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codenoid said:
This subject it touchy either way you side with. If you do tell your other partner and say it's alot, then that person may worry about having to compare to the other people their partner has been with.
If you don't tell the person, then that leaves them to speculate on how many they have been with. Which could be even worse then actually telling the person how many they have been with.
If a woman asked me I'd tell them. But if i told I would expect her to tell me as well
There are some things that need to be known in a relationship and there are some that aren't...period! All someone needs to know IMO is if their partner is "clean"
Honesty is not always the best policy either!! If it brings more harm to something or someone...better left to keep your mouth shut!!
Honesty is not always the best policy either!! If it brings more harm to something or someone...better left to keep your mouth shut!!
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only 2. Im only 20 but it doesn't matter
I don't care what people think honestly. It's quality not quantity in my opinion.
I don't care what people think honestly. It's quality not quantity in my opinion.
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