[japbike]

I don't tell ppl, because I find that it's no ones business. My BF asked me that question early on in our realationship, my answer was this "don't you think that's a little personnal"? He agreed, and that was that.

I don't brag nor am I proud of how many men I have or have not been with. When I was single, I did as I pleased, and did "whom" I pleased. It's my body. I feel fit to do what I want with it.

If its an issue with a guy to know how many men I have or have not been with, then I wont date them. What I did in my past, is my past. And there it shall remain. I guess I don't understand the need for men to know how many ppl their "new" gf's have been with. We women don't seem to care or ask that question of you men. It's all ego, and men should know better that it's easier for us women to get laid then you men, for the fact that we have what you want. That, and alot of men will stick their pee pee's in just about anything.

One thing you need to understand here is this, if this relationship lasts for you, COOL! but I'm telling you now, DO NOT ASK THAT QUESTION AGAIN! besides being rude it's non of your business.

oh, and guys please don't use the excuse "We need to know to see if we need to protect ourselves",.. cuz we know that that's BULLSHIT and you should be doing it (protecting yourself) anyways, regardless...

 

[japbike]

Don't delude yourself with this, and don't pawn shit off onto other people. I've had most of my gfs ask me how many women I've been with. I've even had girls I haven't dated who were interested in a booty call ask me how many women I've been with. Women are just as bad as men are.

I'm not pawing shit off on any one here. Where you got that, I have NO clue.

And if thats so, and these girls are asking this of you, then I take it back. But from experiance, I've never asked, have had plenty of female freinds that have told me that they never ask, because they don't care.

 

[japbike]

I agree, I've been with guys thinking that "this is the best relationship" and we finnaly move it to the bed room and I'm thinking "Why. WHY!" "It's horrible!" :a2 I actually stayed in a relationship with a person and over looked the sex when I was living in Madison, Wi. And no matter how hard I tried, it just wasent going to work out. The sex was just down right BAD, even tho he was a super sweet guy, I couldn't over look it. I felt maybe I was being shallow, but it wasn't that, I didn't feel as if I should settle for just a "nice" guy and not get a "nice guy that was good in bed" too..

 

[japbike]

Is it still pre-martial sex if you never plan on getting married?

yes it is.. all that really means is that your having sex out side of marrige.. that's all... and if that's a sin, then I believe the majority of the world is going to hell.. :lol..... oh well, I love the heat, and I hear it's pretty warm there..

 

[japbike]

Hmm, none of your business how many people I've had sex with? So much for honesty in those "relationships".

has nothing to do with honesty in your NEW relationship. What is past is past, and there is no need to bring it up, that's why it's called "the past"..your new relationship consists of the "future", that's why they call it "the future"... get it??

 

[japbike]

What does sinning have to do with going to Hell?

Well the way I was brought up, you sin, you repent or you go to Hell, in your case, seems like your living in your own Hell from some of the posts I've read. So sin away!