[Rascus]

I've been with my fair share of women. Would I go back and change it...yea. There are a few that I look back on now and realize I wouldn't have touched them with a 10ft pole. There are many times where I wish I had only been with one but then I don't because I can compare and realize that the wife is the best that I've ever been with and glad it's that way......did that make sense?? :dunno

 

[Rascus]

I agree...I think it is important...I will test drive the car before I buy it!! :twofinger If you wind up having problems in the "bedroom" it will only stem into other parts of the relationship!!

That point is very true. Same thing goes with living the person before actually getting married. You may love each other too death, but as soon as you move in you may hate the living hell out of each other.

 

[Rascus]

I still think there may be some nuances that will surface after you have moved in together. My grandparents are totally against it because of their religion but i'm agnostic so doesn't really bother me. When my kids get older I will encourage them to live with the person they plan on marrying for a time before they do actually get married

 

[Rascus]

Hmm, none of your business how many people I've had sex with? So much for honesty in those "relationships".

This subject it touchy either way you side with. If you do tell your other partner and say it's alot, then that person may worry about having to compare to the other people their partner has been with.

If you don't tell the person, then that leaves them to speculate on how many they have been with. Which could be even worse then actually telling the person how many they have been with.

If a woman asked me I'd tell them. But if i told I would expect her to tell me as well