How many people have you 'been with'

I don't tell ppl, because I find that it's no ones business. My BF asked me that question early on in our realationship, my answer was this "don't you think that's a little personnal"? He agreed, and that was that.

I don't brag nor am I proud of how many men I have or have not been with. When I was single, I did as I pleased, and did "whom" I pleased. It's my body. I feel fit to do what I want with it.

If its an issue with a guy to know how many men I have or have not been with, then I wont date them. What I did in my past, is my past. And there it shall remain. I guess I don't understand the need for men to know how many ppl their "new" gf's have been with. We women don't seem to care or ask that question of you men. It's all ego, and men should know better that it's easier for us women to get laid then you men, for the fact that we have what you want. That, and alot of men will stick their pee pee's in just about anything.

One thing you need to understand here is this, if this relationship lasts for you, COOL! but I'm telling you now, DO NOT ASK THAT QUESTION AGAIN! besides being rude it's non of your business.

oh, and guys please don't use the excuse "We need to know to see if we need to protect ourselves",.. cuz we know that that's BULLSHIT and you should be doing it (protecting yourself) anyways, regardless...