I'll spare you the long background info but ill just say that this is the first time i have ever had a conversation with this girl. She is in one of my classes and i see her occassionaly and say hi and smile and she'll return it but thats all the contact we've had.
Today we talked casually for about an hour. She initiated the conversation by asking me to help her on school work but it quickly went off of school subject. We talked casually and every now and then she would bring up sex. For example, I mentioned I'm going to Germany and she asked me if i was going to get a girlfriend there. I said I dont know, and she said "I wonder how they say bang (she did the little hip thrust motion) if the two people dont speak the same language" and she laughed. I honestly cant tell if she was hinting at something or what...??
Near the end of class, I casually said "we should hang out sometime" and nuged her in the side in a friendly way. Nothing sexual about it. It looked like she turned kind of red but i couldn't really tell. She asked me when i had this class next and i told her and she said she had it too that day and said "we'll talk". whats that supposed to mean? I was expecting a "yea that would be fun", or "I cant because of XXXX" (some excuse).
This girl is very attractive and has a great sense of humor and personality, not like most girls i meet with the same level of "hotness".
There is probably a ton of other little things im forgetting but thats the jist of it. I cant tell if she just wants to be friends or if she wants to date. We are both single. Either way I'm probably going to ask her out because I know what happens when guys hesitate, and I dont want to regret anything, like not asking her out.
So, do you guys and girls think, good idea or what? any advice?
Today we talked casually for about an hour. She initiated the conversation by asking me to help her on school work but it quickly went off of school subject. We talked casually and every now and then she would bring up sex. For example, I mentioned I'm going to Germany and she asked me if i was going to get a girlfriend there. I said I dont know, and she said "I wonder how they say bang (she did the little hip thrust motion) if the two people dont speak the same language" and she laughed. I honestly cant tell if she was hinting at something or what...??
Near the end of class, I casually said "we should hang out sometime" and nuged her in the side in a friendly way. Nothing sexual about it. It looked like she turned kind of red but i couldn't really tell. She asked me when i had this class next and i told her and she said she had it too that day and said "we'll talk". whats that supposed to mean? I was expecting a "yea that would be fun", or "I cant because of XXXX" (some excuse).
This girl is very attractive and has a great sense of humor and personality, not like most girls i meet with the same level of "hotness".
There is probably a ton of other little things im forgetting but thats the jist of it. I cant tell if she just wants to be friends or if she wants to date. We are both single. Either way I'm probably going to ask her out because I know what happens when guys hesitate, and I dont want to regret anything, like not asking her out.
So, do you guys and girls think, good idea or what? any advice?