[umairhashmi]

After going out with many girls in my life and getting close to 23 yrs of age i have come to one conclusion.Forget all the crap you have learnt from bollywood n hollywood.Forget the sitting at a girl's feet and begging like a dog.Why? Because its the most self destructive thing you can do.For some reason i have seen most girls run away pretty fast when you give them presents,flowers and too many compliments.I guess the reason is they want a guy who's a CHALLENGE.Someone whos nice but at the same time lets them know that hes doing THEM a favor instead of going out with them instead of the other way around.In my experience all the girls i have dated i noticed the ones i was really nice to,gave the flowers and gifts to,Not to mention the compliments were the first ones who dumped me.And then the ones i didnt spend much money on,Never was the first to touch, and gave them the feeling that "i dont care if you like me or not" were the ones who were attracted to me the most.Anyone else agree with that? Girls like guys who are a challenge???

 

[Twinsen]

Yes, this is true in most cases.

 

[tek_civic]

def agree. if a girl thinks she has you no matter what then they usually lose interest. but if you treat her well yet still give make her work for your affection they will stay interested longer. Its a lot like a dog. if you don't play with it enough or exciting enough they lose interest and go find something more fun.

The other problem with the nice guy syndrome is the confidence problem. a lot of the "nice guys" out there are soo nice because they have no confidence in themselves, if you can combine confidence(shes lucky to be with me) with your nice attitude and good personality then a girl you deserve will be the one your with for a while.

 

[ubernoob]

amen, no ones content for what they can get

 

[Pisser]

Yup, and the ones who are just "looking for a nice guy" are lieing to themselves and you... they get bored the easiest - or protest that you aren't interesting enough and have no personality. Fuck that.

 

[Jiggly]

HAHAHA

should I give my references as to why I agree?

New technique, donkey punches, that way wont get confused with a nice guy

 

[Kaiser Soze]

After going out with many girls in my life and getting close to 23 yrs of age i have come to one conclusion.Forget all the crap you have learnt from bollywood n hollywood.Forget the sitting at a girl's feet and begging like a dog.Why? Because its the most self destructive thing you can do.For some reason i have seen most girls run away pretty fast when you give them presents,flowers and too many compliments.I guess the reason is they want a guy who's a CHALLENGE.Someone whos nice but at the same time lets them know that hes doing THEM a favor instead of going out with them instead of the other way around.In my experience all the girls i have dated i noticed the ones i was really nice to,gave the flowers and gifts to,Not to mention the compliments were the first ones who dumped me.And then the ones i didnt spend much money on,Never was the first to touch, and gave them the feeling that "i dont care if you like me or not" were the ones who were attracted to me the most.Anyone else agree with that? Girls like guys who are a challenge???

I think it is more about timing. Girls love to be pampered, but thats AFTER they have truly fallen for the guy, then they are a sucker for the flowers etc etc.

IMHO it is more that you want to avoid being too nice/needy early on in the piece.

Ladies/gents correct me if im wrong.

 

[hybrid]

Welcome to the real world Jr. :rolleyes

Did you just figure this out?

 

[ASCI_Blue]

your post is completly unreadable. you suck at life and at the internet. you're fired.

btw the search function is your friend.

 

[bush]

I figured this out a long time ago. Asshole behavior got me way more play than being a metrosexual dick in a jar.

 

[theonlykee]

JUst be yourself....whatever that may be!

 

[007SHOWSTOPPER]

They love the drama...so create it..by being a jerk to e'm....every now and then....remember 'he who cares the least...wins'......you be all nice and sweet to e'm all the time...they will end up in a cheap motel....with another dude.Don't feel bad....took me years to figure that out.

 

[tommygun124]

story of my life :cheers

 

[invision]

heh, i'm just now learning this. NOW i understand why all the assholes were popular in school.

 

[bassholic]

I am a nice guy, you might see my other name mentions in ASCI's profile. Anyhow maybe you are meeting the wrong women.


Ok who am i kidding both sexes want a challenge and can get easily bored. Girl from friday night def wasn't, isnt looking for a nice guy. Man it's easy to come out and tell the truth. For some reason saying you have a girl has the ability to work and keep working. Troubles come to not making advances when said GF is not around and things are left for you to decide.........

after rereading sounds complicatedly illogical..oh well

 

[deathdealer]

So true, I missed out on a lot of Prime cut, grade A poon by being mister nice guy... I still kick myself in the ass over a few of them. Forget answering the phone whenever they call, sending flowers or holding them when they are upset... If you want to get them wet start F*ing a couple of there friends... Younger women especially want a challenge, or someone to change. being a nice guy takes the fun out of it for them.

 

[BSR423]

So you've learned a lesson? Now tell the hoes to STFU! They're a dime a dozen. Ignorance is bliss.

And before I get the eyes rolling...

:rolleyes isson

Golden shower for you bitches!

 

[Kaiser Soze]

I am a nice guy, you might see my other name mentions in ASCI's profile. Anyhow maybe you are meeting the wrong women.


Ok who am i kidding both sexes want a challenge and can get easily bored. Girl from friday night def wasn't, isnt looking for a nice guy. Man it's easy to come out and tell the truth. For some reason saying you have a girl has the ability to work and keep working. Troubles come to not making advances when said GF is not around and things are left for you to decide.........

after rereading sounds complicatedly illogical..oh well

WTF

 

[Choco]

gurls don't like assholes, they just dont like needy, whiney, wussbags that cater to their every wish. assholes are whats left over.

 

[hybrid]

I am a nice guy, you might see my other name mentions in ASCI's profile. Anyhow maybe you are meeting the wrong women.


Ok who am i kidding both sexes want a challenge and can get easily bored. Girl from friday night def wasn't, isnt looking for a nice guy. Man it's easy to come out and tell the truth. For some reason saying you have a girl has the ability to work and keep working. Troubles come to not making advances when said GF is not around and things are left for you to decide.........

after rereading sounds complicatedly illogical..oh well

Do you speak english?

None of that made any fucking sense to me whatsoever