it works two ways fellas. I have an ex-husband that is a complete dick. he told me i was a bad influence on my 8 year old daughter b/c i worked full time and was trying to better myself by going back to school. he claims her emotional problems stems from me and every time i would see her (I let him have custody since I work nights, go to school, work, etc) and she went home, she was a holy terror for about 3 days after. finally, he told me he didn't want me to see her anymore so i lost a year out of her life b/c of this dipshit. then he takes me back to court and claims i made no attempt to see her for the last year even though he woudln't accept my phone calls, returned my letters, etc. so, long story short, not only did i get raped in court (i pay almost 600 a month), but he told me he didn't want her to do this, do that, or that, etc. and he wants me to pay for half of her school clothes (which i found out I don't have to unless i want to), her prescriptions (which is fine, except she doesn';t need med's) and her pshycologist appointments (which she wouldn't need if he wasn't an asshole).
no i'm not bitter.