Ok, i am need of some advice and/or opinions.
Let's give a little background info first, since i think it is important in the outcome of this. Ive decided to not use any real names in this, but basically there are 3 girls. We'll name them 'A', 'B', and 'C', simple right?
Ok, so almost 2 years ago my good friend started dating this girl, named "B". She had a cute girlfriend named "A". I was attracted to this girl, and eventually told her i was interested. That didnt work out because she wasnt ready to have a relationship at the time (she just got outta one- whatever).
So then after my friend breaks up with "B", i become good friends with her. Maybe 3 or 4 months later i tell "B" that im starting to consider other possibilities between us than "just friends". At the time she didnt dig it, but maybe 9 months ago we messed around just a little. It wasnt what i thought it would be, so i didnt want it to go further. I put a stop to it, and we are just friends now (although i dont know if she still has deeper feelings).
Anyway, both A and B are best friends with C. Now, ive ALWAYS been attracted to C, even when we first met and i had a crush on "A". But she always had other guys she was dating (nothing too serious), and i never felt like she would ever be interested. I guess she just didnt show any interest, i felt like i was "that guy" who had liked both of her friends.
Anyway, this past week we have spent quite a bit of time together. Not alone time, but just me, "B" and "C". I started to notice that she was acting a little different than before. A little flirting, a little touching. I kinda shook it off because to me i was X'ed out because i had liked both of her friends.
I didnt think anything of it until yesterday. We were at the river with my parents, "B" and "C", having a good time, laughing, talking, getting to know each other much better. Then i was talking with my mom tonight, and she asks "are you and "C" just friends?" I kinda looked at her funny, and asked why? She says to me "because everytime you made a joke or whatever "C" would look at you all ga-ga-eyed. She seemed smitten with you."
Now, i am of course excited because even my mom notices that she acts this way, but my question is: Can i do anything about it?
I mean, i wouldnt even know where to start. "Yeah, ive been noticing the way you look at me....." "Dont worry about your friends, they'll get over it."
I just thought that i had been crossed off the list in her book, but maybe since she has gotten to know me better she has started to have interest?
Please help.....
Thanks!
Let's give a little background info first, since i think it is important in the outcome of this. Ive decided to not use any real names in this, but basically there are 3 girls. We'll name them 'A', 'B', and 'C', simple right?
Ok, so almost 2 years ago my good friend started dating this girl, named "B". She had a cute girlfriend named "A". I was attracted to this girl, and eventually told her i was interested. That didnt work out because she wasnt ready to have a relationship at the time (she just got outta one- whatever).
So then after my friend breaks up with "B", i become good friends with her. Maybe 3 or 4 months later i tell "B" that im starting to consider other possibilities between us than "just friends". At the time she didnt dig it, but maybe 9 months ago we messed around just a little. It wasnt what i thought it would be, so i didnt want it to go further. I put a stop to it, and we are just friends now (although i dont know if she still has deeper feelings).
Anyway, both A and B are best friends with C. Now, ive ALWAYS been attracted to C, even when we first met and i had a crush on "A". But she always had other guys she was dating (nothing too serious), and i never felt like she would ever be interested. I guess she just didnt show any interest, i felt like i was "that guy" who had liked both of her friends.
Anyway, this past week we have spent quite a bit of time together. Not alone time, but just me, "B" and "C". I started to notice that she was acting a little different than before. A little flirting, a little touching. I kinda shook it off because to me i was X'ed out because i had liked both of her friends.
I didnt think anything of it until yesterday. We were at the river with my parents, "B" and "C", having a good time, laughing, talking, getting to know each other much better. Then i was talking with my mom tonight, and she asks "are you and "C" just friends?" I kinda looked at her funny, and asked why? She says to me "because everytime you made a joke or whatever "C" would look at you all ga-ga-eyed. She seemed smitten with you."
Now, i am of course excited because even my mom notices that she acts this way, but my question is: Can i do anything about it?
I mean, i wouldnt even know where to start. "Yeah, ive been noticing the way you look at me....." "Dont worry about your friends, they'll get over it."
I just thought that i had been crossed off the list in her book, but maybe since she has gotten to know me better she has started to have interest?
Please help.....
Thanks!