Love....?

ridehigh2 · 06-16-2005, 10:58 AM

Ok...I realize this is a corny subject but i was just wondering....I have a couple things to say or ask.

1. What are your views on love? Do you believe that its a chemical thing in your brain or do you not believe in love at all or is it more than that to you?
2. Do you believe someone can have more than one true love? Or is it just one person for one person?
3. Just....while your spending your time posting....who are you in love with or who was the last person you were in love with?

dreamy333 · 06-16-2005, 11:07 AM

i klove love, so much. i love hearing of people in love. I am a very passionate person about that. i think you can be on love more than once. i dont think alot of people understand love now days. with love you have to take the good with the bad. love is sacrafice. you put there needs before you anything else. when i am in a relationship i listen to what my man has to say he is the man of the house and what he says goes. i think that a girl should wait on her man and do special things for him if she loves him to keep him. if he wants you to swallow. suck that crap down if he is hungry feed him. but i also think a guy should do his share too let a girl know she is loved above anything else. treat her like a queen. people dont understand staying with someone is hard. and that you are 2 different people and things will be hard but if you truly love dont sweat the small shit say yourpeace and getover it. girls have a hard time with this. i dunno i could go on and on but i will stop before i bore you guys. ATTENTION ::: if you love some today let them know they could be gone tomorrow love with all you have and dont hold back. guys let your girl know your hearts and girl dont bitch so much.

F&D · 06-16-2005, 11:12 AM

Love takes a while to figure out. Dreamy speaks great truths above.

I think part of the problem these days is women trying to be men and men trying to be women.

All I know is this: my wife is my life, and I can't imagine being without her. I worship her. Hell, she's my avatar!

hanglowejohnson · 06-16-2005, 11:13 AM

I used to think id be the first one of my friends married. that i would find that one girl and be happy with her forever... ah well... once u get fucked over a couple times and u realize that everything is a fucking game, u just start playing it. I would love to find a girl that I could just be like, normal with, not have to worry about calling her a certain number of times, or not calling because if i call too much then she'll know that im "whipped" or having to be nice, but not too nice... ugh its such a pain in the ass!

but yah, love would be nice.... eventually......

but the girl still needs to be a freak!

Ca$h · 06-16-2005, 11:17 AM

I am not sure about love, my ex told me she "loved me" and I wasn't sure what to say.

I said, "Thanks, I like you too"

That's why she is now my ex, I would never use love so she said lets end it.

I don't understand it to be honest and well yea.

F&D · 06-16-2005, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by hanglowejohnson

I used to think id be the first one of my friends married. that i would find that one girl and be happy with her forever... ah well... once u get fucked over a couple times and u realize that everything is a fucking game, u just start playing it.

Bad idea. Just stay away from the game players. Look, I know what getting fucked-over is like - I've been through a divorce. Wife 2.0 is a major upgrade.

But if you ever want a real relationship, you gotta refuse to play the games, and when a girl starts this shit with you, RUN. Game-players ain't worth it, ever.

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I would love to find a girl that I could just be like, normal with, not have to worry about calling her a certain number of times, or not calling because if i call too much then she'll know that im "whipped" or having to be nice, but not too nice... ugh its such a pain in the ass!

Good ones are out there - they just don't want game-players either. Although I'm sorry to break it to you, but you'll have to settle for second-best - I already landed The Best Wife Ever. Oh, and she's a freak, to!

ridehigh2 · 06-16-2005, 11:29 AM

I didnt put my views in on love. I probably will. Someone told me they thought it was something chemically in your head and that its not real. I disagree, to me love is more than that. To me, love is wanting to be with that person every day every moment you can. You cant ever get tired of someone you love. When im in love, Im not ashamed of her, I tell my good buddy's I show her off. I dont think you should hide someone you love.
I also believe that there can be more than one person out there for you, but there's still that one key, the perfect fit and once you find her you know she's the one.
I agree with alot of what dreamy has to say.

hyabusa · 06-16-2005, 11:50 AM

There's no such thing......

hanglowejohnson · 06-16-2005, 12:57 PM

^^ dreamy seems to have her moments....

TS6141 · 06-16-2005, 01:01 PM

Love stinks!

SalKhan · 06-16-2005, 01:36 PM

Read: http://www.thelunchjournals.com/thou.../tomysons.html

hyabusa · 06-16-2005, 01:54 PM

I will say i love myself. I sometimes feel the urge to utter 143, but i stop myself. I can say i like a person a lot. I prob just don't know what love is. I think people just end up settling down with the person they can get along with. I've been in 2 long, year plus relationships and have told the person those words. I agree with giving yourself to another person and doing what makes them happy, but you can do that and not say love.
I'm an advocate of always trying to do better. Such as keep getting mor eeducation, keep looking for the next better job etc. Keep looking for the next better girl. I guess you can always say there will be somethin gbetter, but will you be able to obtian it is the ques.

SalKhan · 06-16-2005, 01:56 PM

"Chemically no different, than eating large quantities of chocolate!"

Name that movie!

sexyicecold · 06-16-2005, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by ridehigh2

Ok...I realize this is a corny subject but i was just wondering....I have a couple things to say or ask.

1. What are your views on love? Do you believe that its a chemical thing in your brain or do you not believe in love at all or is it more than that to you?
2. Do you believe someone can have more than one true love? Or is it just one person for one person?
3. Just....while your spending your time posting....who are you in love with or who was the last person you were in love with?

I think sexual attraction is a chemical thing. There are pheremones in each person's body that naturally attracts them to one another. Beyond that, Love is real. I am in love now, and have been for the past 3 years or more with the same person. Real love is when it's reciprocated. You can love somebody as much as you want, but they won't necessarily love you back. Reciprocity, compromise, and being each other's equal is of utmost importance in a relationship involving love.

You can have more than one love, but there is always one that will be the best.

I am in love with Malik Ross. See my avatar.

bill · 06-16-2005, 04:42 PM

i agree sexually its a chemical thing you have to have the spark to have the emotional connection for the long haul... as far as more then one true love, id have to say yes you can have more then one true love, problem arises when you have more then one true love at the same time

as for the last question you have to love yourself first before anyone else can love you (IMO)