I Feel Like Crap...

sictight311 · 10-02-2004, 04:39 PM

Well since im sure my car forum is sick of hearing me complain, ill do it here

My ex girlfriend(was gf at the time) left for hair school in Utah about a month and a half ago. So we broke up, since it was expected since shes like 27 hours away. But we told eachother that wed pick up where we left off when she came home for breaks and stuff. Since were broken up were allowed to see other people in stuff, but I have no want to. Anyways I talk to her on the phone every weekend or so to see what shes been up to. Pretty much everytime she talks to me, all week all she does is go to parties with friends visit guys etc. Thankfuly she doesnt drink, or have any want to. She also tells me she doesnt want a guy or anything like that. Anyways today I was talking to her, and I dont know why, but I asked if she kissed anyone since shes been there. She was like "wellll" and I sad except for Danielle(her friend who sent her bf the pic and said since I cant kiss you, shell have to do) and she laughed, and I said seriously have you. And she said well I kissed this one guy, but we didnt make out. So ofcourse my heart drops since the idea of her even kissing a guy makes me depressed. She told me it doesnt mean anything, blah blah blah.
I think it might hurt cause I get attached too easily, since I dont really think im that good looking. And i was with her for 2 years. I mean i know im 18, and I should be out having fun and all this crap, and theres so many girls in the sea, but it just feels so different when im with her.

Thanks for reading, if anyone did. I just needed to get that off my chest..weird thing is its kinda already made me feel better.

bumblebee · 10-02-2004, 07:11 PM

I think you are right in that your car forum is tired of you complaining. I am too. Should I send you some cheese to go with that whine??

Stimy25 · 10-02-2004, 07:16 PM

So sad.............. Now go fling yourself off a short roof...........

Solitude · 10-02-2004, 07:41 PM

cmon guys cut him some slack.

Im sure that breaking up is a rough thing to do, ive personally never really had to deal with a breakup in a serious relationship (lucky me.. i think)
If you guys arent together ie you broke up, then you really just need to move on. I know it probably sucks to think of her with someone else, but you cant really expect her to not date again. Once you BREAK UP thats just it, you are BROKEN UP you need to either let her go, or get back together with her. If she means enough to you then pack your shit and move 27 hours to where shes going to school. If shes not that important to you then youre just gonna have to deal.

And just for shits and giggles, id have to say that Im not the best looking guy out there either, but I have a great girl who for reasons i still dont quite fathom loves me. So if I can find someone, then you will find someone else bro.

sictight311 · 10-02-2004, 08:21 PM

Hey thanks Solitude. Yeah I realize were broken up, but were still best friends, so obvisouly were gonna talk alot, which I guess makes it harded to let go. MY other girlfriends it was like alright were done, no more talking, screw you, and I was over em in like 2 weeks. And I actually thought about moving out there, but I thought my future was more important, so I stayed here. But I guess like ya said theres always some one else, unless i missed mine, or she became a lesbian

Bumblebee, yes I would like some cheese, when can I expect it to be here?

Stimy25:I tried jumping off a short roof, and it just hurt like a bitch.

Oni · 10-02-2004, 11:50 PM

Do her best friend and move on.

Justin726 · 10-02-2004, 11:57 PM

Here's the deal.....Get yourself out and meeting other girls. There obviousely isn't a serious future with this girl since you've broken up and she's 27 hours away, so there's nothing holding you back. Have some fun on the weekends, let her know about it when you talk to her, and just maybe she'll end up being the one asking YOU if YOU'VE kissed anybody else. I'm not saying this to make her feel bad (kind of like you feel now), but it would be really good for you to just break away from the previous "relationship" with her and try starting a new one with someone else. That's the main thing, just move on and keep your head up. Good luck man.

bluesnowmonkey · 10-03-2004, 10:18 AM

You've got a simple case of breakupitis. I'm gonna give you a prescription: bang two chicks and call me in the morning.

sictight311 · 10-03-2004, 05:51 PM

Yeah im actually gonna be going to a pre-car show party at a club friday night, then drivin to cleveland sat for the car show, and maybe stayin there and drinkin a lil bit with some friends. And maybe I can fill your perscription up there Dr. bluesnowmonkey

japbike · 10-03-2004, 10:59 PM

First off, DON'T ask questions you DON'T want to know the answer to.....meaning, if she kissed someone else. You know damn well she did, and some where, deep dpwn, you already knew the answer.....To avoid that pain, refrain from asking.

And luck you to in love with your best friend.. we all could only ba so lucky!!

UP VFR · 10-04-2004, 12:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bluesnowmonkey

You've got a simple case of breakupitis. I'm gonna give you a prescription: bang two chicks and call me in the morning.

+10000...works every time!!

nibbs · 10-04-2004, 02:54 AM

i;ve been in your situation with breaking up after 1.5 years and still trying to remain best friends. it doesnt work!!!! if you break up from a long term relatiopnship you need to completely separate yourself from her which includes phone calls. otherwise everynite when you come home you'll have her on the brain. either cut her off completely or tell her that you want to be exculsive and that is that!

bjam69 · 10-04-2004, 03:42 AM

Dude your 18!!! You have your whole life ahead of ya.. Do not waste it on one chick... Worry about stuff like that when your 30.. Party-up and enjoy it...

beowulf2k · 10-04-2004, 04:11 AM

Yeah me and my chick broke up, hurt like hell, smoked a shit load of smokes, always thought about her, but then after not seeing her (out of sight, out of mind) seems I am better.
My theory is "if she don't want me, why even fight for her?" so I moved on, and realized its all the same out there, theres always someone for someone out there, just like we get hurt, girls do as well and its just a big ol recycle bin until you find the right one.

good luck.

Milwaukee DON · 10-04-2004, 04:30 AM

I say the best thing to do at this point is hang out with your guy friends. Find the manliness in you. When my GF of like 3 years and I broke up cause I went to college, I decided to never pass up an opportunity to have fun. Go wherever. Stay busy. Get a fake ID and go to some bars so you can meet skeezy bar sluts. Do whatever it takes, but STAY BUSY and you'll be OK and bangin' other (hotter) girls in no time ;)