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Originally Posted by Spike
Nah, it's her own personal stuff, just something she deals with from time to time. Although the guy she was seeing for the last 6 months or so broke it off with her a couple days ago because he cared too much about her to share her.
Wait, what?
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Nah, it's her own personal stuff, just something she deals with from time to time. Although the guy she was seeing for the last 6 months or so broke it off with her a couple days ago because he cared too much about her to share her.
dude, i'm no psychologist, but your girl needs some help and I'm willing to bet a wax job on my testicles that the swinging/open relationship you think isn't a problem....really is to her. it may not be evident on the surface, but deep inside it is.
Encourage her to get some counselling to decide if this lifestyle is good for her or not. And go with her.
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Originally Posted by WhisperQuiet
dude, i'm no psychologist, but your girl needs some help and I'm willing to bet a wax job on my testicles that the swinging/open relationship you think isn't a problem....really is to her. it may not be evident on the surface, but deep inside it is.
Encourage her to get some counselling to decide if this lifestyle is good for her or not. And go with her.
Wow bro, you actually, let's see... have ABSOLUTELY no idea what the hell you're talking about. If you must know, she gets CLINICALLY DEPRESSED which has not a damn thing to do with our relationship. The depression was the thing she was dealing with a few weeks ago but she's over it. The entire open relationship is HER idea and she is WAY cooler with it than I am. Next time you want to offer some advice, maybe thing before you speak.
Oh wait, and did I mention she's in graduate school to be a licensed clinical therapist? So, that means she's QUITE aware of her emotional state and if she should be seeking counsel.
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Wow bro, you actually, let's see... have ABSOLUTELY no idea what the hell you're talking about. If you must know, she gets CLINICALLY DEPRESSED which has not a damn thing to do with our relationship. The depression was the thing she was dealing with a few weeks ago but she's over it. The entire open relationship is HER idea and she is WAY cooler with it than I am. Next time you want to offer some advice, maybe thing before you speak.
Oh wait, and did I mention she's in graduate school to be a licensed clinical therapist? So, that means she's QUITE aware of her emotional state and if she should be seeking counsel.
you're doomed.....enjoy your life, you seem to have it all under control. I just hope she's not giving herself her own diagnosis under her split personality.
since depression has never been fully understood, I am so glad you and her know exactly what isn't causing it. The two of you together should write a thesis and save the worlds depressed people. asshole.
Come on now man, no need for insults. The guy has done nothing wrong to anyone from what i can see in this thread. If he chooses to live his life the way he does then its his decision. Be glad that your happy in your own life and leave others to live their own the way they see fit. We cant all be expected to live the same type of life...6 billion people living in the same way? pretty boring world if that was the case!
I know a life like that is far from what I would be comfortable with, if I knew my woman was even considering another man/woman I'd have her dumped in a split second. To think another man could have his hands on my woman, kissing and making love to her...no thank you!!!
But i'm one man in a world of about 3 billion...not everyone is the same...i'm happy with my life and whatever about others!
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Originally Posted by WhisperQuiet
you're doomed.....enjoy your life, you seem to have it all under control. I just hope she's not giving herself her own diagnosis under her split personality.
since depression has never been fully understood, I am so glad you and her know exactly what isn't causing it. The two of you together should write a thesis and save the worlds depressed people. asshole.
Split personality? What the hell are you talking about? She has been diagnosed as clinically depressed in the past, she doesn't self diagnose. And she's had a fair bit of training about the different kind of depressions and what generally causes them. Situational depression happens when there is a specific event causing the feelings. When nothing specific within the last few months can be found, then situational depression is not the cause.
I really appreciate being called an asshole! For real! I mean, I was SUCH an asshole to you, I called you names and belittled you and acted like I knew everything about your life! I should jump off a cliff I'm so awful! Grow up.
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you're doomed.....enjoy your life, you seem to have it all under control. I just hope she's not giving herself her own diagnosis under her split personality.
since depression has never been fully understood, I am so glad you and her know exactly what isn't causing it. The two of you together should write a thesis and save the worlds depressed people. asshole.
Come on now... why is he an asshole b/c he and his wife are living their lives on their own terms? I happen to know them personally and I can tell you that they are good people.
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Come on now... why is he an asshole b/c he and his wife are living their lives on their own terms? I happen to know them personally and I can tell you that they are good people.
Thanks Tammy I'm kind of surprised at the level of attack here... completely unprovoked and with a quickness! Is there something in the water? lol
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asshole.
