Post your open relationship experiences/stories

perfect10rider · 07-19-2008, 02:01 PM

There will be NO TROLLING and NO MORAL DISCUSSION in this thread at all

It is simply for people posting their experiences in an open relationship, swinging, having a threesome, or anything else you might do with consenting adult humans outside the definition of a monogamous relationship, talking about issues/benefits of their relationship status. No judgement. No right/wrong. People that are interested in and considering an open relationship can ask questions.

I don't care if you screw your wife's boss's wife in front of the guy and then snort lines of coke off of her ass or maybe your kid's hot teacher. Just tell us about it. Is the only way you can beat your friend at Mario Kart to have your girl go down on him during the final laps? Enjoy seeing your girl covered in cum and want some sloppy seconds?

shah269 · 07-19-2008, 09:46 PM

I am open to make an ass out of my self.....and she is open to pointing out that I have made an ass out of my self :-)

I had a lot of girl friend in collage who talked about it, but for the most part (other than the durnken girl on girl kisses every now and again) it was just that talk.

Can it be done? Yes.....I think it can and I've seen it done. Could I pull it off?....no.
My wife is very very very self concious and very jeleous of other women.......and I'm a non stop flirt so. No operation share the shah is a no go :-(
But hay who knows right? Maybe one day....... :-)

mandafun30 · 07-19-2008, 10:19 PM

i wouldn't say that we have an open relationship. we have had a few group expierences though. all i can say is it takes a couple that has no issues with jealousy to do it. we have done two "full swaps" and two "soft swaps". We have found it difficult because usually the female half is extremely good looking while the male half is not so. the problem with that is the wifey doesn't have an attraction and it makes it hard for her to want to do anything with him. Also, another problem we've had is guys not being able to get it up. Sucks for her. She also has stated that no guy has came close to pleasing her orally as well as i can. We have had a couple that we've screwed around with a couple times and has worked out well both times. As far as the other women go it has been a blast, we both love to play around with other women, problem is finding a single good looking bi chick is kinda hard.

McWhat · 07-19-2008, 10:21 PM

A few years ago I dated 3 different women, and a had a few one night stands. I went through about 3 times as much aspirin during that time. These days I just stick to one at a time. The winning moment of that time frame was the party at my house where I invited one girl, my roommate invited the second, and another friend of mine invited the third.

perfect10rider · 07-19-2008, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by shah269

Can it be done? Yes.....I think it can and I've seen it done. Could I pull it off?....no.
My wife is very very very self concious and very jeleous of other women.......and I'm a non stop flirt so. No operation share the shah is a no go :-(
But hay who knows right? Maybe one day....... :-)

If there is any jealousy at all it will not work.

At the same time, if it does work it's wonderful knowing you won't catch hell at home for a little innocent flirting or anything as long as you follow the rules. And the best part is knowing what you are both comfortable with. Not some ill defined "too far" where one week the woman will point out a chick in a miniskirt and the next she's bitching at you for a quick glance at someone else.

Does stink a little when you find out the single chick you had your eye on at a party is not bi.

huffy10speed · 07-19-2008, 11:42 PM

My best experience was the baby sitter.

It all started out as a 3 somes from time to time and then one night my wife was not feeling good so instead of running the fun she told us to have fun. There were nights that she would join or just watch us. Even nights I would just watch them and on the way home my wife would tell her to take care of me on the way to drop her off.

In the end it was almost like having 2 wives.

The worst part about it now is that she(babysitter) moved to OK.

We really have not been to active since then, been about 6 months but it is mostly due to our personal lives being so busy with work, illness and the kids.

Look forward to plenty more fun but all in due time.

Edit**

That was one of the good experiences but I left out a bad/awkward. The first night for anything we were going to a club called San Sushi. It was the first time for anything even talking to someone about the lifestyle. We pulled up and got out to go up to the Penthouse where this place is at and what do you know we get caught in the elevator with another couple going the same place we were. lmao Needless to say we did not know how to respond or let alone act in any situation being the first time for anything. We made it up there but that night ended young and empty handed but all in all it was an ice breaker and helped us know how to deal or the be more open in those situations.

perfect10rider · 07-21-2008, 11:40 AM

Huffy, how'd you find her?

I'm not sure if swinger's sites, clubs, or craigslist are more effective. I'm picky enough that the few people I happen to run into during my daily activities that I'd consider aren't interested. Haven't gone out of my way to change that, but I'm curious where other people find singles or couples.

gatorSMASH · 07-21-2008, 11:56 AM

friends with benifits with a girl who you really are friends with is really nice, and once you do it you see what dating should be like, now i strive for that. When a girl can be your best friend and you hook up, what else do you need? you have the physical and emotional connection that most people say a relationship should carry, and you know its not just lust. I did it while in college and it was really great, awesome being with a girl who you can go get sonic with, come home,bone fest, play mario kart, and then she helps you with your papers. Plus we were doing it no less then 2 or 3 times a day for like, 3 months straight. it was really nice i miss it alot. I had 0 intrest in any other girl during the fact and ive never been like that in any sort of other relationship.

perfect10rider · 07-21-2008, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by gatorSMASH

friends with benifits with a girl who you really are friends with is really nice, and once you do it you see what dating should be like, now i strive for that. When a girl can be your best friend and you hook up, what else do you need? you have the physical and emotional connection that most people say a relationship should carry, and you know its not just lust. I did it while in college and it was really great, awesome being with a girl who you can go get sonic with, come home,bone fest, play mario kart, and then she helps you with your papers. Plus we were doing it no less then 2 or 3 times a day for like, 3 months straight. it was really nice i miss it alot. I had 0 intrest in any other girl during the fact and ive never been like that in any sort of other relationship.

Yup, that's what I've got right now only it's Taco bell instead of Sonic and working on the bikes instead of homework.

Planning to add in the occasional threesome or play with another couple.

obxFZ6 · 07-21-2008, 01:44 PM

I got stabbed in the thigh with a fondu fork...on purpose.

perfect10rider · 07-21-2008, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by obxFZ6

I got stabbed in the thigh with a fondu fork...on purpose.

Trying to initiate a threesome gone wrong?

Got to post more of the story than that.

shah269 · 07-21-2008, 02:11 PM

I had a theory on this once, "Dormant female bisexual nature."
It was a good theory that state deep down inside all girls were bi, but that biness needed to be unlocked and this was accomplished usually by being in Mexico and drinking margaritas like there was no tomorrow!
That or collage parties and body shorts.
Either way I never got the funding needed to prove my theory.

gatorSMASH · 07-22-2008, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by perfect10rider

Yup, that's what I've got right now only it's Taco bell instead of Sonic and working on the bikes instead of homework.

Planning to add in the occasional threesome or play with another couple.

im headed off to college again in a few weeks i hope i can find something similar again, someone i really want to be my girlfriend!

hopefully shes asian

SloppyJoseph · 07-22-2008, 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by gatorSMASH

im headed off to college again in a few weeks i hope i can find something similar again, someone i really want to be my girlfriend!

hopefully shes asian

Or he.

gatorSMASH · 07-22-2008, 07:47 AM

only you sloppy sally