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hey all i need some advice as none of my mates have ever dealt with this and maybe some of you have.
i am currently engaged to a girl i have been with her for 3 years, i should also mention that we got engaged about 9 months after we started seeing each other. we were also living together from about the 1st week so we have been together all the time for the past 3 years.
i have been thinking about leaving her over the past few weeks, we don't really do much anymore, as in going out and doing things we are just doing the same shit all the time over and over, we don't have sex anymore and haven't for and i am sad to say it but nearly 2 years, not real sex the very rare i'm horny ok fuck me and she will lay there.
she is a great girl but i don't feel like we are dating anymore it is like we are just living together and thats it.
i also met up with an old friend i haven't seen in about 4 years and she is a gorgeous girl who i always got along with and i have been finding myself thinking about what it would be like to date her. now i would never cheat but if i was serious why would i be thinking about another girl?
any help would be great
and be serious please
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Have you thought about getting a wife? That way you can basically cut your expenses in half since you'll share the cost of residency and her income.
You're not dating any more, kid. You're married in everything except the law, so get out now while you still can, and don't make any more dumb shit moves like moving in with the next one.
You shouldn't even talk about getting married until you're thirty, and have bagged half the town.
I'm not feeling it. Sorry, but a buddist in the family doesn't make you open-minded. It just means you're bangin' a buddist.
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You're not dating any more, kid. You're married in everything except the law, so get out now while you still can, and don't make any more dumb shit moves like moving in with the next one.
You shouldn't even talk about getting married until you're thirty, and have bagged half the town.
BINGO!!!RING THAT BELL...that's what i've been saying forever.WHY would a person that young get engaged and live together...like my friend said...fuck as much as you can untilyour 30's then START just a little bit thinking about getting married.If things are not exceptional than get out..I think one should only be with a girl if he REALLy loves her and the relationship is amazing...
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i feel extremly bad because we have put so much time into the relationship, and i am also scared as fuck about being apart i mean 3 years together every day
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Originally Posted by Ivan_markII
Have you thought about getting a wife? That way you can basically cut your expenses in half since you'll share the cost of residency and her income.
Bro get out now before it drags out another 3 years. Its not gonna get any better. Time to get back in the game!
I was in the same situation as you. I was basically living at my girlfriends house and we hung out every day for like the last 2 years. I made the mistake of convincing myself we could work things out when i wasnt really into the relationship, and looking back now i should of broke it off a year ago.
One thing that will get you over your fear of being without her real quick is boning another girl. Its amazing how much better sex is with someone who's really into you.
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OK look at your dick!
Do you like your dick! Has he been nice to you! So why are you doing this to the little guy! GET THE FUCK OUT! You my friend are about to get married to a 70%er!
A 70%er is a bitch who would much rather shop than have sex with her boy friend or her husband. Dump that bitch now and let some pathetic government engineer be her bitch.
You.....you my friend need to discover Brazilian women! They kill 70%ers in Brazil and use their body fat to make bio diesel
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OK look at your dick!
Do you like your dick! Has he been nice to you! So why are you doing this to the little guy! GET THE FUCK OUT! You my friend are about to get married to a 70%er!
A 70%er is a bitch who would much rather shop than have sex with her boy friend or her husband. Dump that bitch now and let some pathetic government engineer be her bitch.
You.....you my friend need to discover Brazilian women! They kill 70%ers in Brazil and use their body fat to make bio diesel
Brazilian womens are not like most americans think of them..Most people think they are sex freks...Brazilian women like one thing..MOney..they careless for sex...I think american womens are better and more creative in bed than Btrazilians.
That's just from my own experience of course that depends on where you live in Brazil.Up north in Salavador , Fortaleza, Maceio..the girls are more spiced and easy..dow south in santa catarina where famous hollywood stars go, they are snob and care only about the money...
My friends would kill m,e but brazilians girls are way overrated...
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i feel extremly bad because we have put so much time into the relationship, and i am also scared as fuck about being apart i mean 3 years together every day
What could you possibly be scared of? you're a man, man, harden the fuck up, dust off that man card and enjoy life.
You're 21 years old, you dont even have any fuzz on ya ballz yet....the world aint that scary, and women come in different flavours.
The only thing worse than living like that now is living like that for the rest of your life. GTFO NOW! She will cry, she will beg, she will promise to change. And she may change...for a couple of months. Get away from her, call up some buddies, go have some fun. Just don't get trapped in this forever. Much easier to leave a fiancee than a wife. And you definitely do not want to risk getting kids involved.
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