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i dont have them but turns out the girl i am seeing does. And i dont know what the hell to do about it. i accually like this girl alot, she is really hot and we have so much in common its almost scary. I go through girls like a Harley goes through quarts of oil(about 1 a week) so its not like i just finally found a girl to date me and have put her up on some pedestal.
Anyone ever delt with anything like this? advice? suggestiions?
my head starts spinning when ever i think about it so i am going to go get lit
later
I dunno, it's a tough decision and it's a big deal, but it's a mistake she made in the past. She could be a wonderful person who is perfect for you and it would be a shame to lose out on that because of a mistake she must live with every day for the rest of her life. I say give her a chance, you never know where or when you'll find love.
Yeah this sucks, Friday night and my girl is 8000 miles away...
herpes isn't all that bad. it opens you up to all those hot girls out there that can't have sex with normal guys.
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Originally Posted by chaos14
i dont have them but turns out the girl i am seeing does. And i dont know what the hell to do about it. i accually like this girl alot, she is really hot and we have so much in common its almost scary. I go through girls like a Harley goes through quarts of oil(about 1 a week) so its not like i just finally found a girl to date me and have put her up on some pedestal.
Anyone ever delt with anything like this? advice? suggestiions?
my head starts spinning when ever i think about it so i am going to go get lit
later
No one can tell you what to do, it's a purely personal choice. Having said that, I'm so glad that I've never had that problem
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Herpes is very contagious and can cause all kinds of problems but can be fairly well controlled with the proper medication. The most important thing is to use protection, pratice safe sex at all times and really consider what you want for the future.
For married people who want to eventually have children herpes opens a whole other door of possible complications related to pregnancy and child birth.
The most important thing to remember is that although Herpes is FOREVER that doesn't mean the person who has contracted it is a bad or dirty person. As someone stated above they made a poor choice or mistake.
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I got to say, it sounds pretty scary but truth be told I was with a girl with herpes. She admitted it straight up front, and shared that she hadn't had an outbreak in a long time with medication. I did some research, took a chance, used protection and found that she was a really terrific person to spend time with. With that said, I don't think I would ever want to stay with her long term and run the risk of contracting H myself so sadly I stopped talking to her. I wish there was a cure for it - in her case she got it when she was a teenager with one of the first people she banged. She ended up getting married and having two kids later on and I feel for her situation.
Yes, currently seeing a gal with HSV-2. Read up on it so you know what you're dealing with. There are a lot of cons, but it all depends on whether or not you care for the girl. Obviously, you're using protection all of the time, so there are disadvantages there. If she's been taking her meds for years now, she's likely learned to tell when she's going to have an outbreak, or at least when she's "shedding". A lot of folks feel something akin to a sunburn, or itchy skin, when they're starting to shed the virus. At that point, I don't care how much Valtrex she's taking, you need to back off sexually for both of your sakes. Stressful situations, extreme lack of sleep, etc., can also bring it on. If she cares about you, she'll tell you when she isn't feeling right. If you care about her, you'll respect that.
Outbreaks appear less and less the longer you've had the disease. You can get it pretty easily if you're not careful; you can also avoid it if both of you are careful. It's honestly a personal decision about what you do. Know that you can have a relationship, you can eventually have unprotected sex (not all the time), she can have children, etc., without passing it on. But you have to treat your relationships a little more responsibly than other folks do.
Herpes is very contagious and can cause all kinds of problems but can be fairly well controlled with the proper medication. The most important thing is to use protection, pratice safe sex at all times and really consider what you want for the future.
For married people who want to eventually have children herpes opens a whole other door of possible complications related to pregnancy and child birth.
The most important thing to remember is that although Herpes is FOREVER that doesn't mean the person who has contracted it is a bad or dirty person. As someone stated above they made a por choice or mistake.
Just because you have herpes doesn't mean you made a poor choice or a mistake. I know a lot of people that have it because their long term partner cheated on them with someone else that had it. Explain to me how they made a poor choice or a mistake by having unprotected sex with a committed long term partner?
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Herpes is the gift that keeps giving. No thanks, there are a lot of other broads out there that are cool THAT DON'T have herpes. Tell her it was nice meeting her, but that you don't want to buy Valtrex the rest of your life.
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Unless that chick has an oral fetish, likes watching porn with you, is a top notch chef, makes more than $50,000 a year and has her own motorcycle..........Find another.
Unless that chick has an oral fetish, likes watching porn with you, is a top notch chef, makes more than $50,000 a year and has her own motorcycle..........Find another.
Those can actually be found without the additional baggage. Now I just have find the second one!
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