Women are freaking weird, I swear!

[SloppyJoseph]

Originally Posted by Blake331

always have a backup plan. (as in another girl)

Words of advice.

[R1100S-Rider]

I think something also not helping me much is... I don't like fashion. I wear what ever I want. I'm not a punk rocker, or a jock, a damn emo kid. I don't belong to any pacific group. I'm just myself. I don't care about fashion. I just wear what ever I want. I'm not a ladies man as you all can tell, I'm not the smartest person in my school, but I'm not the dumbest...

I've got a motorcycle, that good enough for me...

O.k. off to First Fridays!

[SloppyJoseph]

Dude, i like your style. Don't get caught up in what all of the other dumbshits do. Do your own thing. Make friends that can respect that. And the most important thing is to be yourself around this girl. Don't try to change just so she will like you. If she doesn't like your personality, like I said before, kick her in the twater and leave.

[MwKid19]

Originally Posted by Parabellum

What he needs to do is fuck one of her acquaintances (but NOT a close friend of hers) and dump her for no reason.....I put $100 if he does that this girl will be all up on him.

I never chased women...I was not the 'player' type. I was much more interested in real relationships. However, that does not mean that I didn't understand the games that people play.

Yeah I don't play games with women. Probably why I don't get laid as often as I would like.

[ZxHunteR]

She put up her shield several times to fend you off. She doesn't like you. You went about it the wrong way. Move on.

Originally Posted by R1100S-Rider

I think something also not helping me much is... I don't like fashion. I wear what ever I want. I'm not a punk rocker, or a jock, a damn emo kid. I don't belong to any pacific group. I'm just myself. I don't care about fashion. I just wear what ever I want. I'm not a ladies man as you all can tell, I'm not the smartest person in my school, but I'm not the dumbest...

I've got a motorcycle, that good enough for me...

O.k. off to First Fridays!

This is a mentality you will have to snap out of right now if you want the girls right now. You don't have to be super fabulous but you have to coordinate what mixes and does not mix. Yes I understand what you're trying to say about fads, I was never that person either. I thought the fake people that dive into fads are fucking morons. But you cant just walk around with baggy pants, green shoes, and a loose unfitting faded blue T-shirt from good will because you think thats being your comfortable self ( this was me a few years ago ) And you have to have an understanding of the subconscious and active womans mind.

Its not hard either. You don't have to put in more effort to get girls as odd as that might sound now at 17. You have to put in a different kind of effort. If you want things to go your way you have to take the reins and have control over your thoughts and actions...meaning you have to stop being apathetic about stuff. If you mentally shrug your shoulders and just " be yourself ", in that sense you will get no where. You wont attract anyone. Though you will be attractive to the girls that shrug their shoulders also. Girls that don't get hit on as much as the girls that you're attracted to. Im talking about the 4 and below ranking girls. And if you have no standards they are incredibly easy to get! Go up to the first 300 lb girl and do exactly what you did to the girl you wanted in the OP. She'l fuck the shit out of you. ( But dont let her on top or she might really do that )

And know that you can still be yourself but act different in situations to get what you want. Im not talking about being a 'player'. Because a player is just a ho that gets the loose ass. ( but ass none the less) Im not talking about being a ladies man either. If you want you can be a player and get the loose girls. But being a ladies man wont work unless you're a smooth, suave, sophisticated 35 years old. Basically Antonio Banderas.

[ZxHunteR]

Originally Posted by MwKid19

Yeah I don't play games with women. Probably why I don't get laid as often as I would like.

Its not playing games. Playing games is what a 14 year old does to get a hand job from a drunk chick in a movie theater.

And yea...either way, thats probably why.

[jetblack]

Originally Posted by R1100S-Rider

I think something also not helping me much is... I don't like fashion. I wear what ever I want. I'm not a punk rocker, or a jock, a damn emo kid. I don't belong to any pacific group. I'm just myself. I don't care about fashion. I just wear what ever I want. I'm not a ladies man as you all can tell, I'm not the smartest person in my school, but I'm not the dumbest...

I've got a motorcycle, that good enough for me...

O.k. off to First Fridays!

You seem to have some confidence, but no knowledge of how to handle women.

If you don't care about your appearance, then why should a girl notice you? Learn to dress right and nicely (matching colors, pants/shirts, etc.). Don't EVER call a woman multiple times in a day, and if she flakes out on you once, put the ball in her court and move on to the next one. If she was genuinely interested, she'll contact you.

You have to have the attitude that there are plenty of beautiful girls out there, and your time is too valuable to waste on the stupid ones.

I love Hybrid's attitude on it, because it's so true: "The less you care about p*ssy, the more p*ssy cares about you." Think about it.

[jetblack]

Originally Posted by Parabellum

Calling a chick 3 times in the same day = instant ban.

Turn in your man card, and go cry for a while....maybe some advil for that pain in your vagina.

YOU are why she is with that other guy.

Give him a break, he's 17. He barely even has the man card

And I will admit I was every bit as clueless when I was his age. That Tucker Max story is a good example for the most part. What he did and said is not important, it's how he went about doing it. I think he said that, actually.

[CaptNemo]

Originally Posted by jetblack

Give him a break, he's 17. He barely even has the man card

He probably just out grew his Grranimals. It can be a little difficult if you're used to matching monkey tags with monkey tags, and then all of a sudden, you don't have that "fashon sense" help anymore.














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[jetblack]

Originally Posted by CaptNemo

He probably just out grew his Grranimals. It can be a little difficult if you're used to matching monkey tags with monkey tags, and then all of a sudden, you don't have that "fashon sense" help anymore.

[mssdrider]

Originally Posted by CaptNemo

He probably just out grew his Grranimals. It can be a little difficult if you're used to matching monkey tags with monkey tags, and then all of a sudden, you don't have that "fashon sense" help anymore.

you should have said you would go to her party, and then just not show.
girls tend to want things they can't have...if you make yourself too available, no matter how great you are, she will lose interest.

Now, as to that tucker max story: if you want a girl with even half a brain you would not try those lines. the girl has a boyfriend but she slept with him anyway. A girl who will fall for those lines are usually not as self confident which tend to equal to DRAMA...

honestly, like AC says, the smart women can spot a line, laugh at it, and won't fall for it. If she falls for such a cheesy line, watch out, she't trouble.

oh yeah, and you're 17. girls between the ages of 15-18 are just pure PSYCHO. i have yet to meet one that doesn't fall into that category. *shudders* hell, thinking back, I was psycho at that age...geez! i'm still crazy now!

[Bredebee]

Originally Posted by ZxHunteR

Its not playing games. Playing games is what a 14 year old does to get a hand job from a drunk chick in a movie theater.

And yea...either way, thats probably why.

Yer words are always soo eloquent lolol you kill me man .........MSSD when are you coming back for girls ride and food lady !?!?!!?!?

[ZxHunteR]

Originally Posted by mssdrider

girls tend to want things they can't have...if you make yourself too available, no matter how great you are, she will lose interest.

This is a gigantic clue here, RS rider.


The thing is she might know exasctly why that is, or she might not. The concept [ of why ] is simple to understand but a little difficult to explain in novel detail.

If you want to 'be yourself' then ignore what Im saying. If you are tired of the story that went on in your OP, and WANT to change, but not just curious of what I could possibly propose to you that seems so built up, then show it.

[Smooth7]

the girl is fucking with your mind. like most girls do, especially at that age.

you need to fuck with her mind back.

ie dont call her anymore.

[mssdrider]

Originally Posted by bredebee

Yer words are always soo eloquent lolol you kill me man .........MSSD when are you coming back for girls ride and food lady !?!?!!?!?

i'll be back wednesday but without bike. have to fly back for a week or so for business.

will be with bike end of september!