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I was like that. Being a workaholic gets you into a certain mindset.
YOu gotta do two things:
1. Remember the good in having a g/f
2. Be willing to get shot down and go balls out.
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Originally Posted by KatanaMike
casual conversation is a lost art due to the eternal damnation of text messaging.
Very true...most girls I've dated lately sincerely want to be cool with me but couldn't carry a conversation if it came with handles and weighed one pound.
I personally have always been able to strike up a conversation with anyone. I just try more readily to talk to the hot girls. lol. But my philosophy has always been "whats the worst that can happen?" I mean you say hello they say hi back and they continue on their way and you probably never see them again, or they stop and talk to you. Same with asking someone out. Its ether a yes or a no. Unless you're a friend and have invested some time and thought into asking them out, you really have nothing to loose. Rejection is a part of life, and if someone rejects they weren't worth it anyway. And that person rejecting you could mean they left the door open for the love of your life, or the fuck of your life, or whatever the hell you're looking for.
For the right amount of money Id try that line. But theres no way Im approaching any woman that way. My mother taught me respect and fear. I say something like that I can be sure my mother will come around the corner and slap me stupid.
You could always try grocery stores. Hot chicks still have to eat. Here's an example
You: Hi
Girl: Hello
Comment on her groceries
You: How much are those breasts?
Girl: Excuse me?
You: Those chicken breasts. They are huge. Let's fuck
Girl: Ok!
Seriously, I have no idea LOL
I don't know what kind of grocery stores you're going to (I want addresses!), but those kind of lines only worked for me in bars really close to closing time.
Here's my example (which actually DID work):
Me: Hi, you're pretty cute
Her: I'm sooooo drunk
Me: Wanna come back to my house and keep the buzz going?
Her: Hell yes
Me: Great, maybe we can get naked too
Her: ok
I believe they described this situation best in the 40 Year Old Virgin when people told Andy he was putting the pussy up on a pedastal. I should know because I have the exact same problem.
You start out motorcycling with a full bag of luck and an empty bag of experience. The trick is to fill the bag of experience before you empty the bag of luck.
Some people are like slinkies; they're good for nothing but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs.
If you want to talkto a beautiful woman just be conversational. Dont hunt her like prey. Talk to her like shes a friend. Remember women are human too. They arent perfect and neither are you. If you come at it in a relaxed way and not with a goal in mind you might be surprised where it leads.
yeah, you'll be banging fat ugly chicks like Shallow Hal
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Originally Posted by doggy69
Why is it that people jump on people assuming its their first bike...because they just joined the forum....maybe they just want to converse and ask questions...people can ride for eternity without coming here for our infinite wisdom
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Originally Posted by R.Brosnan
It's better to learn on a 250 for all the same reasons that experts can make a 600 do so much more. The design compromises that make a sportbike so responsive in the hands of an expert also make it amplify the mistakes of a beginner.
I think the problem your having is that you are being too goal orientated. What I mean by that is your prolly hoping for a date/sex or something along those lines. If you want to talkto a beautiful woman just be conversational. Dont hunt her like prey. Talk to her like shes a friend. Remember women are human too. They arent perfect and neither are you. If you come at it in a relaxed way and not with a goal in mind you might be surprised where it leads.
I agree, you are to hung on hooking up with each hot chick you talk to. The fact is that it isn't gonna happen. Once you decide that you will look at them different and not act like an ass b/c she don't want you anyway and nothing is lost.
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I was in a nasty one for a few years and got out of it a while back( dont recall how long) . Its been a while since Ive really cared about getting another girlfriend so your not the only one.
As for the talking thing, just start talking to everyone you normally wouldent and its become second nature.