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If you've got your mouth set on a tasty cheeseburger with pickles and it's what you've wanted all day, then you get there and they have NO pickles. You gonna turn it down? Probably not. But if in the morning you KNEW they weren't gonna have any pickles, you might have decided on something else during the course of your day.
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Two things: first of all- Spike, you kick ass. Next time i'm in florida, i'm taking you out for a cheeseburger. With or without pickles. Your choice.
Second- i got a bike when i was with my current girlfriend. She hates bikes. Her sister (may as well be her twin, they're close and look identical) had a boyfriend who died on a bike. The two of them (her and her sister's BF) were great friends. She went to the funeral, and they had to put him in a big baggy red wings jersey cuz his body was so fucked up.
So- one day i'm like: i'm thinking i should finally get a bike. I had a good job over the summer, and could finally afford it. This did not excite her. Also- her dad almost died on a bike, and forbade her from ever getting on one. So yeah- she was kinda pissed. But after about three weeks of explaining myself. (as in, i'm the most cautious person on the planet, bar NONE- which is true) and the fact that i don't WANT to die, but love fast bikes, she ended up BUYING me a bike. She knew it would make me happy- so we went to get it, and SHE pulled out the money. It was fucking sweet.
SO- women can be turned to the light side. She'll never ride with me, probably- which is fine, becuase i dont have a rear seat or pegs for my new bike... but she's cool with me riding. As long as i don't crash.
It's possible. And yeah- i'm keeping my girlfriend. You can't have her.
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Well, you know? I love riding, and riding is somethign I've always done by myself. It is something that is mine, and that I might not want her to share to a full extent.
Though, riding with your SO might be really good, but I also need the option not to ride always with her, so it has its upsides/downsides.
get her her own if she likes to ride that much. i like havin my girl on the back, yet i can't flirt with death in that situation, so +1.
long time ago, thread called "best friends sister", i took her for a ride....slowly...but had fun. pulled into her folks house (whom WERE like my second family) and dropped her off....got the look of death from the 'rents and they haven't talked to me since. their loss.
point is that if you and her ae on polar ends of the bike issue, it won't work. if she simply would just be worried cause you're a crazed lunatic with a quick wrist, that can be fixxed. if she hates riders/bikes, its a lost cause.
okay here's my take on this. tell her you ride, if she doesn't like it offer to buy her a new vibrator. no I'm not kidding, use this statement word for word if you like. her behavior is unacceptable and she isn't worth your time if she keeps it up.
__________________ jim schmidtIf you didn't spank her hard during first date sex, you've already lost the battle, you wuss and pussy! ChaunceyAs we speak, speedy is in class right now learning about anatomy. He had a few questions regarding these things called "testicles" and something called a "spine".
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My first question is why doesn't she like people who ride? I take it you got the bike after you first met, but before the breakup. I just not bring it up until she decides what she wants to do as far as going out with you. As a matter of fact, I would keep my distance in general until she figures that out.
If you guys start actually going out, make sure she finds out about it early, and just tell her that riding has become part of your life sense you last really talked about it, and you'd love to take her for a ride sometime if she wanted, if not, thats okay too.
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Alright little bit of an update. Last time i talked to her (friday) we got to talking she told me what happend with her last boyfriend and why she broke up with him (him lying saying he cant do anything sexual and then cheating on her) and she said once again that she wants to "clear her head" and also that she doesnt want a boyfriend she didnt say at the moment or anything after that. So im guessing that she just wants to be friends. Either that or she doesnt want a boyfriend right now but maybe down the road she will. any advice?
yeah... have sex with her but don't fall in love and become her boyfriend. she just wants to fuck, man! who cares if you ride... your deal not hers and if she don't like it, tough.
don't be a wuss. put the moves on her. if she doesn't reciprocate what do you loose? NOTHING.
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If she doesn't like bikes then she isn't worth it. Sorry.
Okay seriously now though, you shouldn't have to give up on something that you enjoy, especially for someone who isn't even sure if they want to date you! Move on, find a girl that doesn't try to control you without even dating you. (I know she doesn't know about the bike, but when she finds out she's going to be PISSED that you "lied" to her and the longer you wait the more angry she will be.) Tell her the truth, if she doesn't like it screw her!
Okay, being an old guy....and being with someone who hated motorcycles...thus I didn't have one for 5 years...DON'T DO IT MAN!!!! If she doesn't like motorcycles and doesn't want to be with you because of it...screw it. If she doesn't want a boyfriend, fine. What's the big deal? Do you really have to have a girlfriend that bad? If you are just trying to hit it, friends with benes. That way if she hates that you have a bike, great, she doesn't have to deal with it anyway.
Oh and if anyone tells you that when you have kids you need to get rid of your bike...tell them to piss off. What's more responsible? Paying significalntly less for transportation than a car for your bike and riding responsibly, or paying $500 a month (plus the corresponding gas bill) for a friggin SUV? They are all out there to force you to assimilate to their view of normalicy. Normal sucks! IT will turn you into a whining metro with more clothes than you know what to do with, talking about your "feelings" with her and her girlfriends. DO YOU REALLY WANT THAT! Once you let her control that aspect of your life she will start telling you that red meat is bad. Football is nothing by a mysoginistic sport that brings out men's inner neanderthal, that you should excuse yourself from the family room while you are watching TV before you fart...yes, gentlemen...the common woman's goal is to turn you into a woman. And worse than that? Then you aren't "manly" enough for them and they leave you for a guy on a Hardley (only to make that guys life hell). No matter how hot she is, there is some guy, somewhere, that is sick of her shit.
Kind of took off on a tangent there...but seriously, if she doesn't like you for you (and if she is really clever she will make you believe that she DOES like you for who you are...hmmmm) than what is the point?
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