Attn: Females on flowers

Chauncey · 03-05-2006, 04:19 AM

Hey ladies...

Went out drinking with my boys tonight (AWESOME fucking time!) and was wondering about sending the lady some flowers at work tomorrow (3/5/06). Think this would be a big red flag that I did something wrong and would proclaim I have a guilty conscience? I DID NOT do anything unbecoming a gentleman but was just wondering. I got this idea in my head that it would be kinda cool to surprise her with flowers at work but wanted to know if it would set off alarm bells in her head that I did something fucked up, purely because I was out with the boys tonight.

Just curious, is all. I couldn't quit thinking of her all night and was wanting to let her know so. Any feedback is hugely appreciated. Thanks in advance, babies!!!

DDJFLW · 03-05-2006, 04:23 AM

I'm not a lady but yes it definately sends a red flag message. Do not ever send or do anything different the day after a guys/girls night out. This will always cause doubts on what went on when you were out.

Chauncey · 03-05-2006, 04:25 AM

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I'm not a lady but yes it definately sends a red flag message. Do not ever send or do anything different the day after a guys/girls night out. This will always cause doubts on what went on when you were out.

Yeah, that was my gut feeling all night. But hey, I've got the soul of a romantic and just wanted to let her know she was on my mind and shit. Ah well, that will just have to wait I guess. Many thanks man!!!

prodigal27 · 03-05-2006, 09:11 AM

That depends on the girl, some girls just eat it up. With my experience, attaching a card that says "Just because." seems to work wonders. Try not to make them just roses if you do decide to do it, make it an assortment. Work is a good place to do it because all of her work buddies are gonna get jealous, on top of saying "awwww".

dparadis · 03-05-2006, 11:27 AM

Have the flowers waiting for her at home, on Friday night, so she can see them over the week-end.

Maybe ut's just me. I find flowers at work tacky...

Oh yeah! Very nice of you to say that you were thinking of her all night. Why don't you just tell her. Well no... Don't just tell her.

Take her out for a nice supper next week-end. Is she asks what's the occasion, then tell her that you had fun the other night with the boys but felt like spending of evening of sharing and soul gazing with her...

(I am gonna go barf now...)

TemtnF8 · 03-06-2006, 10:43 AM

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(I am gonna go barf now...)

You do that... With that cheesy line, I just did.

As for the flowers... Send 'em. Girls love getting flowers, whether there's a reason or not. The "just because" line on the card is good, and when she calls to ask you what they're for, tell her "Because I couldn't stop thinking about you while I was out with my friends last night." She'll love it, and you'll be getting something to remember from her...

gixxer27519 · 03-07-2006, 11:18 AM

I have done it "for no reason" before, and she ate it up. And no i wasn't accused of anything. It was, however, in the first 3 months of dating.

sexyicecold · 03-10-2006, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by TemtnF8

As for the flowers... Send 'em. Girls love getting flowers, whether there's a reason or not. The "just because" line on the card is good, and when she calls to ask you what they're for, tell her "Because I couldn't stop thinking about you while I was out with my friends last night." She'll love it, and you'll be getting something to remember from her...

+1

"I was thinking of you last night, so I'm sending you flowers today." Sounds perfect!

Exhiliration · 03-10-2006, 12:54 PM

How about this card:

“I had a great time drinking with my buddies but after getting drunk I needed an orifice to plug, I couldn’t get you off my mind”

Chauncey · 03-10-2006, 05:18 PM

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How about this card:

“I had a great time drinking with my buddies but after getting drunk I needed an orifice to plug, I couldn’t get you off my mind”

mssdrider · 03-12-2006, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Chauncey

Hey ladies...

Went out drinking with my boys tonight (AWESOME fucking time!) and was wondering about sending the lady some flowers at work tomorrow (3/5/06). Think this would be a big red flag that I did something wrong and would proclaim I have a guilty conscience? I DID NOT do anything unbecoming a gentleman but was just wondering. I got this idea in my head that it would be kinda cool to surprise her with flowers at work but wanted to know if it would set off alarm bells in her head that I did something fucked up, purely because I was out with the boys tonight.

Just curious, is all. I couldn't quit thinking of her all night and was wanting to let her know so. Any feedback is hugely appreciated. Thanks in advance, babies!!!

as a girl, i'd think it's sweet. oh yeah, don't do roses... cliched... the card is awesome...trust me, it'll make her feel special...this is coming from watching my friends get flowers... personally i'd rather receive a new exhaust or something...but then i'm weird that way...

good luck!

Chauncey · 03-12-2006, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by mssdrider

as a girl, i'd think it's sweet. oh yeah, don't do roses... cliched... the card is awesome...trust me, it'll make her feel special...this is coming from watching my friends get flowers... personally i'd rather receive a new exhaust or something...but then i'm weird that way...

good luck!

Well, thanks for the tip but that's 60 bucks I'm gonna be saving anyway. Cut her loose awhile ago.

AnKleBiTer · 03-12-2006, 10:16 AM

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Well, thanks for the tip but that's 60 bucks I'm gonna be saving anyway. Cut her loose awhile ago.

You started this thread on the 5th of March it is the 12th now. What's a while ago?? And anyway I thought that SHE cut you loose sort of and you decided you were devastated and what not. What's changed since then?

Chauncey · 03-12-2006, 05:46 PM

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You started this thread on the 5th of March it is the 12th now. What's a while ago?? And anyway I thought that SHE cut you loose sort of and you decided you were devastated and what not.

By awhile ago I meant a few hours or whatever. SHE didn't do shit (cut me loose), SHE still was calling me and whatnot (I swear on my unborn kids' lives I called her maybe once every 10 times she called me). I wasn't "devastated", just a little mystified is all. I don't bother sweating the shit anymore with ANY woman.

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What's changed since then?

I had a good time with her, misread some signs, got some good sex, and cut her ass off when I found she wasn't looking for what I wanted. No big deal, it just means that I need to look elsewhere. You wouldn't believe the looks on my buddies' faces when I told them that I told her to kick rocks. They all ask the typical guy question, "Were you still hittin' it?" and it's sister query, "Why not just hang out and fuck her?"

Well, it's really quite simple (I cannot believe I'm about to say this): I'm getting bored with sex. Really, I am. I've learned to control my dick and that has kept me out of some bullshit games with dumbass women who think they can ride me for all I'm worth financially and otherwise. You could say I've grown up, or turned gay, or whatever. I think of it as seeing the light. That means that NO PUSSY IS WORTH HORSESHIT HEADGAMES AND FUCK YOU IF YOU THINK YOUR PUSSY IS GOLDEN. I will prove to you that I run shit here, YOU just fuck here.

No offense to you, Ankle, none intended at all. I'm just sick of not gettin' what I want, you know?

SPDKLLS · 03-24-2006, 05:21 PM

I said this elsewhere but...

If you think, and a thought pops in your head
"Should I get her something ?"

the answer is YES

personally I'd do flowers, maybe a single rose amidst an assortment.

The card ? Yes again ! you thought should I xxx Card ?? YES