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My gf called me "cold" tonight because I told her I was going to write her a check so she can get what she wanted instead of my taking a risk on getting her something she doesn't want or need. I know I am not very Christmasy type of guy, I just dont get into all the emotionalism this time of year, and I just dont enjoy Christmas shopping at all. Anyway it was a real spat, so now I feel like a punk.
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lol, if you cant go shopping for her, it shows (in womens mind's) that you wouldnt go out on a limb for her. at least go get her some roses and a nice card and she should forgive you
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You wrote you gf a check for christmas?
Yea dude, that is cold.
Even if it's something she doesn't want at least the thought was there for you to go get something for her. I don't know how long you two have been dating but if it's for any length of time and you did this it may make her think you don't know her enough to go get something she may like.
You're going to have one hell of a ripple effect from this.
What are you going to do for her birthday? Get her a gift card?
Speaking as a woman (since I usually speak that way)...I would so be ok with that...almost. I am hard to buy for, since I usually just get what I want....so you can get my list so I already know everything and that is cool. But you gotta make some effort, even if it means going to the store with me to pick things outl.
Why don't you make up for it? Ask her what she wants and give it to her with a little naked dance??
I have done the same and got the same treatment before. But then again I have been referred to as cold so much it doesn't bother me too much these days.
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I have done the same and got the same treatment before. But then again I have been referred to as cold so much it doesn't bother me too much these days.
I said you have cold hands.
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Dude...dude..really. What the fuck. Even I, the original rat bastard, wouldn't do such a thing. Instead I'd have said something like 'lets not do christmas' and turned around a few days later and said "hey babe get dressed, pack your shit we're going shopping." Why do this you ask? Simple it's on my terms.
Officer of course you're cold, you're a fuckin cop.
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Dude...dude..really. What the fuck. Even I, the original rat bastard, wouldn't do such a thing. Instead I'd have said something like 'lets not do christmas' and turned around a few days later and said "hey babe get dressed, pack your shit we're going shopping." Why do this you ask? Simple it's on my terms.
Officer of course you're cold, you're a fuckin cop.
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That would be the end of it all for me. I'd dump ya and shred every picture.... OKAY not really, but it does say a lot. To us it tells us that we aren't important enough for you to spend a little time and thought on. It also shows us that you don't know us at all or listen to us, because you can't think of anything we may "want or need." I mean sheesh, get her a nice necklace or bracelet. Jewelry always works, don't get a giftcard and only a giftcard because it's the same as a check. You can always do a giftcard for her favorite store and something like a piece of jewelry.... It's probably your best bet.
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