Dating? - Page 3

Travis71902 · 12-07-2005, 12:04 AM

I dunno what everyone thinks, but I DON'T want to meet her kids. That is unless we get serious. I understand that the children don't need to be subjected to a new "friend" of mommy's every couple months. I also understand that the children will definately take precendence over me. Like I said, just because she has kids doesn't mean that she doesn't like to go out and have fun. And that just happens to be my goal. If she's not interested or things don't work, oh well, bring on the next lady. If things do work out, then I'll start worrying about the kids.

nitrotc3drifter · 12-07-2005, 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Travis71902

I dunno what everyone thinks, but I DON'T want to meet her kids. That is unless we get serious. I understand that the children don't need to be subjected to a new "friend" of mommy's every couple months. I also understand that the children will definately take precendence over me. Like I said, just because she has kids doesn't mean that she doesn't like to go out and have fun. And that just happens to be my goal. If she's not interested or things don't work, oh well, bring on the next lady. If things do work out, then I'll start worrying about the kids.

+1, as long as you arent meeting the kids too early, i say fuck that milf like you never fucked before!!!!, im glad you realise that its really shitty for the children for mommy to show them her new "friend" every so many months, i been there when i was a kid and i can tell you it gets really awkward. make sure you serious about it first and then go ahead and meet them in a few months

jk750 · 12-07-2005, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Travis71902

I figured I'd just take her out, with or without the kids, and have some fun. I dont know how comfortable I'd feel if she brought the kids on the first couple dates just cause if its not happening, Id feel bad for the kids.... but if it did work I wouldn't mind after a couple dates.

I'm sorry, Travis. But I was just going on what you said in your first post about going on the first couple dates with the kids...

Travis71902 · 12-07-2005, 01:37 AM

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Originally Posted by jk750

I'm sorry, Travis. But I was just going on what you said in your first post about going on the first couple dates with the kids...

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Originally Posted by Travis71902

I dont know how comfortable I'd feel if she brought the kids on the first couple dates just cause if its not happening, Id feel bad for the kids constantly being introduced to different "friends" of mommy, but if it did work I wouldn't mind after a couple dates.

Maybe I could've worded it better. What I was saying is---> I dont wanna see any kids for the first couple dates(probably longer), if she wants otherwise I will be very uncomfortable. If things were lookin good though and she was comfortable with it, I wouldn't mind the kids.

jk750 · 12-07-2005, 01:43 AM

Hope it works out.

ASCI_Blue · 12-07-2005, 03:32 AM

I'd say not before date number 6, don't see her more than twice per week. Be yourself and be a man. Now go forth and have fun.

Drifter · 12-07-2005, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by jk750

Maybe she wants to just go out and have fun. Feel like a woman again, and not just always a Mom.
What's wrong with just going out on a date?

I hear ya and you'll get no arguement from me. I was simply adding a comment from my own experience. The three single moms I dated were looking for new husbands. At the time, I was looking for a wife (young and confused), so I was cool with it.

iceman2005 · 12-07-2005, 05:09 PM

ur all good man i dated a girl that was 27 had a 10 year old son and i didnt have nay problems just obviously could never work out!! and im only 18!

Travis71902 · 01-30-2006, 12:50 AM

*************UPDATE*****************

This chick basically flaked on me once she found out that I wasn't 21. I pretty much said lets go out this weekend and she replied that she would like to get a drink with me. Then of course I told her that I wasn't 21 yet but that we could go shoot some pool at a local bowling alley and she could still get a drink if she wanted. Eh, no responce. Whatever, I moving on.

Well now Ive been 21 for about 2 weeks now and said fuck it, I'm gonna email this girl back and tell her she needs to take me out and buy me a drink. So less than a day later she bites and writes back and says this, "When do you want me to? I could use a drink..." and of couse she added the winking emoticon at the end. lmao.

Funny deal is I got this other girl, also 27 but with no kids, barking up my tree.
see attached thread.........http://www.sportbikes.net/forums/sho...2121943&conly=

And top of all this shit my ex of 3 years, whom I havent spoke to in like 4 months has been going back and forth texting me for the past week or so.

I know they say women come in waves, but goddamn!!

UberGoober · 01-30-2006, 01:38 AM

I think you need Leykis101 dude. www.blowmeuptom.com

Travis71902 · 01-30-2006, 02:20 AM

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I think you need Leykis101 dude. www.blowmeuptom.com

What? The dont date single moms? They need love too. if she just wants a father Ill know right away cause Im a broke college student, not a wealthy yet lonely 40+

Travis71902 · 02-07-2006, 11:05 PM

Alright, I've been going back and forth with this woman and she gave me her number Sunday. I haven't called yet, but I am planning to tomorrow as I have no school nor work. To be honest I'm not real sure when to call her as she works, goes to school, and has the kiddies. But that dont matter I'll use the old *67 to buy me a free phone call.

And since we got all the Don Juans on here, where do u guys suggest I take the phonecall, in terms of conversation? I'm noy real sure how to play this one as shes 27 and probably way more mature or at least different than most of the 19-22 year old broads I'd normally be coercing into a date. Should I just play it the same? I wanna come off as mature and refined, the complete opposite of what most 21 year old guys are. I've never really dug the whole 45minute coffeebreak as a 1st date thing, but this actually might seem to be the way to go in this situation.

Any younger guys with advice on older gals lemm know what ya think. Either way though I'm gonna make this happen dammit.lol

ASCI_Blue · 02-08-2006, 12:25 AM

30 min coffee break. Ask her which gender she thinks is superior and why and her answer must be no less than 1000 words.

Travis71902 · 02-08-2006, 12:28 AM

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30 min coffee break. Ask her which gender she thinks is superior and why and her answer must be no less than 1000 words.

lol....sounds like asking for trouble there. I like it.