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Sometimes nature takes over and physical things can happen, doesn't mean you want to throw away your family and spend the rest of your life with that person.
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--Man, is that ever an excuse. Sorry, but it is not instinct nor are we driven by instinct alone. You are human and have control over your actions.
It is a choice to make. By having that other commitment you made a choice. By cheating you are simply not sticking to that decision.
If you want to sleep around, more power to ya, just don't do it and try to keep the relationship based on commitment while you do it. It's not cheating if you aren't commited to someone else. It's just sleeping around.
Of course they don't want to wreck what they have, they just want to take it for granted and abuse the other person's trust and affection. My wife didn't want to lose the guy making 60k a year, the house, dinner cooked, a built in babysitter, etc. She wasn't done using me for all of that so she didn't want to be caught. Not that she respected me, our relationship, our family, etc. She just wasn't interested in giving up the cozy life she had. She was less interested in that though, than shagging random morons she met, so the decision became mine.
. My dad cheated on my mom, broke her heart, left us when I was 10, she never re-married, barely dated 
. I know first hand the problems that come from "cheating". I'll stick to my major point, 9 times out of 10, its the lies and the betrayal are what cause all the problems, not the act itself. Its the lying and the sneaking that uses all that massive brain power you two are talking about. I've been with my wife faithfully since I was 19, now I'm 32, believe me, I'm no adonis, but I've managed to use alot of self control if nothing more for the fact that I love my wife.
Dam Munky!
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