Without the benefit of actually knowing you, it's difficult to say what (if anything) needs to be changed. But.... perhaps you could work on having for empathy for others.
Women generally want to be understood, or at least see their men make the attempt in a non-judgmental way. Work on being more open and approachable.. not impatient and not instantly looking for the quickest solution when she wants to talk.
Unless she's on fire, whatever she wants to talk about doesn't need an instant resolution. The act of talking it over will probably be enough to make her happy until she specifically asks you to do something.
