The only safe sex isn't marriage sex. You're obviously not married.
What happens if/when the wife cheats?
I hate the term "safer" sex. It's safe if you do things that aren't risky. Just like skydiving is safe, or riding your motorcycle is safe, or jumping off a cliff is safe. Make sure it's over deep water, wear your gear, bring a parachute that you tested out, and wrap that shit up before dippin it in.
No one chooses to get HIV. One chooses not to protect against it (or herpes, or crabs, or anal invasion - shoulda checked for that homo hiding in the closet!). That's like saying you chose to wreck your bike.
What kind of crazy talk is that? You can choose a choice that you don't know about... that's not a choice. Choice is Diet Coke or Mr. Pibb. Use a condom or don't. Just because you choose to not use a condom, doesn't mean the bitch got teh AIDZ, and that you're choosing to get it from her even though she doesn't have it.
I just confused myself trying to figure that one out.
But yeah, only women want security over freedom.