[Twisted Sister]

Originally Posted by malik ross

let her go. its not fair to you or your kids to be in involved with this woman when she is still involved with someone else.

and she involved with him. she may not still be seeing him but she is still thinking about him. she is/was with you becuase things between them didn't/haven't worked out. as soon as thinks that door might open again she'll walk out your and through his.

no friends. yes, you have lots of common interests and get along well but ultimately you are with her because you want a romantic relationship, not becuase you wnat a buddy to come over, drink beer and listen to music. you've admitted you are a wuss which means more than likely you put yourself in a situation that is not to your advantage. she may not do it on purpose but if she is on the fence between you and another man you'll be taken advantage of.

put the ball in her court. tell her you aren't going to play second best. you are not going to be the also-ran.; tell her you want to be with her and no one else and if shes not ready to do the same she needs to let you go so you can find someone who does.

I concur